26/03/2023
If you really want to see these qualities in action then we need to analyse her day-to-day life.
๐๐๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐ญ๐๐ค๐ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ฌ
The first is the story, very well-known to everybody,
but let's look into it deeper
Imagenโฆ ๐
You're at home and your husband comes to you and there's something really overwhelming him.
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ ๐๐?
Let's go to their house and see...
What was it?
"So he comes in after the famous story in the cave, where โSayyidna Gabrielโ came to him (๏ทบ) and says read. and then he responded I can't read and again read.
I can't read, read, I can't read and finally, he told him "read by the name of your lord who created..."
So he comes back to her"
๐๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐ง ๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ซ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐.
"And he comes to her and he said something strange happened to me.
He was literally shaking and says, cover me, cover me. then he told her the story."
Now, remember, there hasn't been a prophet for years before our Messenger (๏ทบ)
This is not something that happens every day
What was her response?
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐๐ข๐๐ฅ
When he told her, "I'm so worried about myself, she said, dont worry.
have the glad tidings
by Allah, Allah will never disgrace you,"
๐๐ก๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ...
What did she see from him?
And she acknowledged it right away and used it in the moment
"You keep good relations with the kin's, and family regardless, you take good care of them and you are keen to keep it."
This is important for a wife and a husband,
Number two,
"You're always there when people need you. Especially the needy"
Number three
"You speak the truth"
She acknowledged it
We know it's extremely important to acknowledge the positives of people. To give them support.
"You serve the guest generously."
It's all support, the uniqueness about her that built a nation.
This is what we need if we want to be like her
๐๐จ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ง๐๐.
๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐ง๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐.
This is just one incident that I want to share my finding with you.
๐ What have you learnt from " Khadijah R.A"
