04/01/2021
My biggest blessing is life are you 3 babies. My biggest goal in life was and still is to be the best mother I can be to them no matter what, and the main thing that continues to help me do this is to not give a s**t about what others think of my parenting.
Did we co sleep? Yep! Did we breast feed? Yep! Did we sleep train? Yep! Did we change to formula? Yep! The list goes on and all of which I’m proud of and will always be proud of.
If your having a hard time with the judgement, and the comments of what you should or shouldn’t do as a mother, then I hope this helps you listen to the only people that matter!! And that is bub and you.
Don’t let it get to you when someone hits you with the comment like... “oh your still breastfeeding! Isnt bub a little old?” Or “ why aren’t you toilet training yet?”
It’s know ones business as to why or how you parent and you don’t have to feel pressured to give them a perfect answer. A simple “ because it’s works for us!” Is more that enough.
Remember you are doing a great job and know one should make you feel like your not. And especially not a maternal child health nurse. Because let me tell you I hear so many woman say how s**t they felt after leaving an appointment feeling like that aren’t a good parents.
So please stop listening to others and what they think is right and listen to you gut and your motherly instinct and most importantly listen to you baby. You are amazing and your doing the best you can and that’s all that matters.
Love to all
Priscilla XX