10/05/2026
What does fully inclusive really mean?
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When it comes to making wedding clothes, It’s more than just being accepting. Lots of people out there are completely accepting of q***r people, neurodivergent people, people of different ethnicities and body shapes. But they don’t know how to put that into action.
Being fully inclusive is about giving people the safe space to ask for what they want and need and being enthusiastically curious about what makes them feel amazing. It’s about acknowledging that the wedding world is biased towards people who are straight, and slim, and cis and white and neurotypical and that it’s actually everyone’s right to expect their clothes maker to do things differently. Nobody should feel they are being demanding simply by stating who they are. Nobody should feel like a burden for asking for what they need to feel comfortable.
What should happen is that someone walks into my studio says “this is me” and I say, “awesome, let’s figure out how we can affirm that with your outfit”. So let’s shirk the trends and recognising that not everyone fits into the typical mode and that’s not only ok, but it’s wonderful. You can be a feminine bride and wear an androgynous suit. You can be a q***r non binary nearly wed and wear a poofy dress. You can be autistic and want to wear a style that everyone says will trigger your sensory issues, and so you ask me if there’s any way that I can make it comfortable for you. You can be a wheelchair user and ask for something to fit specifically for being seated most of the time. You can be any shape or size and expect a perfect fit. You can be any skin colour and expect me to provide sheer illusion net that matches your skin tone. Being inclusive is about finding out who someone truly is and what they need to feel their true authentic self.
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