12/08/2022
YOUR DRESSING!
I was in the bank this certain day. The queue was quite long and slow. A guy approached me and asked me to lend him my pen. I was surprised because I was not the last or in the front, and what amazes me most, it wasn't obvious I was holding a pen.
So, I became curious, as to why he left all, at the back, and came to for a pen, even when he didn't see one in my hands.
So, I asked him, how did you know I have a pen?
He answered and said, "your dressing made me to come to you for a pen." I was like how am I dressed? He said, "you are looking corporate (mind you, I was only wearing native, not my usual suit and tie)
As he left, immediately I heard from within me, "look at how your dressing could give somebody assurance that you have a pen." "If a person can guess you have a pen just by the way you dressed, what then do you think people think about you when you dress?"
Then, I realized that, indeed people read you. Your dressing is an advertisement of your personality. You don't have to be a bad person, for someone to judge you bad. All you need is to dress as one, and you will be addressed as such.
I have a question for those who always say, "don't judge me by the way I dress, it is character that matter (indeed, most of them are good), but, "Must wait for someone to get closer to you before realizing how good and hardworking you are?
Sometimes, you don't have to do the talking, let your dressing do so for you. Your dressing is your image. Therefore, sell a better image of yourself to the world! If someone addresses you like a like a harlot or thief, it might be that you permitted then through your dressing. Be careful of the image you sell to the world about your personality!