15/02/2026
Men...
The reason why you are enjoying your marriage today is because you are able to provide for your family.
The reason why your wife respects and submits to you is because you are able to provide her needs.
It is not because of love because love is fickle and can't withstand the test of time.
When you lose your source of income and can't secure another one, you will discover that money is more important than love in the marriage .
When some men came to my inbox to complain on how their wives' characters changed when they lost their jobs and when I go through the comments that followed the post, I will just smile at most men's comments.
A lot of men don't know about women. Women change their characters when their husbands lose their jobs and are unable to provide for their needs.
There are four stages, you will pass through in the hands of your woman when you lose your job;
1.Sympathetic stage
2. Annoying stage
3. Irritating stage
4. Frustrating stage.
1. When the news of you losing your job is broken out, your woman will feel pity and sympathy for you. She will remember what you have been doing in the past, she will remember how foodstuffs never lack at home, how you have been providing everything she asked for and taking care of the family.
If she is a working class, she will start doing all these things without a complain, she will double her respect for you, give you emotional and moral supports All these she does because she believes that you will soon secure another job and everything will be fine. But inwardly, she has given you a time frame to secure a job and take over your responsibilities. If you are lucky to secure a job within the time frame she gave you, you will think that you have married an Angel who supported you when you lost your job. But if you are not lucky, then welcome to another stage..
2. Annoying stage
Here, everything you do will start annoying her. At this stage, she won't complain anything to you but inwardly