19/09/2024
Why is that when a man looses his wife (it can be in death or divorce) the society urges him to marry another woman immediately? But reverse is the case when it comes to women. A widow or divorcee is encouraged not to remarry and train her kids single handly. If she refuses and remarry, the society frowns at her and judge her, her dead or ex husband’s family withdraw all support. What does this tell you? A man can’t do without a woman but a woman can do perfectly well without a man😂. Please don’t get me wrong, I am not a feminist, I am just stating the obvious. Ladies don’t ever make that man make you feel like he is doing you a huge favor by marrying you, he needs you more than you need him. Let him get on his knees and propose to you, don’t allow all these men with pride that wants to turn the table to make you feel less of yourself. Worst is those that listen to their fellow bitter man that tells them they are doing a woman a great favor by marrying her so they shouldn’t go down on their knees to beg her to marry them🤦♀️. As a woman, you are evening at the loosing ends immediately you get married and start bearing kids, your body changes, you put yourself at great risk birthing babies, you work tirelessly to keep the home front. Anyways the good news is that we enjoy the fruits of our labor more later in life than men do😂. Shebi na only snapps kiakia them they give men when a marriage ceremony is being conducted in his home but women demands consumes the major part of the marriage list 😂. When God created Adam, he looked at him and said it’s not good for a man to be alone so he created woman. Women please hold yourselves in high esteem! That man ain’t doing any favor by wifing you, don’t allow this demented African mentality shape you!!!!! Udo. ..
