25/05/2026
From my box
Good morning everyone.
If I tell you that I’m typing this with tears in my eyes, believe me.
First of all, thank you for creating this platform where people can pour out their hearts freely. In this generation, it is hard to talk to people because the moment you open up, they judge you, gossip about you, or use your painn against you. So most times, I keep things to myself. But today, my heart is too heavyy.
In 2021, I met this man and we started dating. When I met him, he had no job. God had already blessed me with a good job immediately after school, and I never saw his lack as a problem because I genuinely loved him with all my heart.
But from the beginning, this relationship has been full of painn.
Anytime he’s frustratedd, angryy, or upset, he beatts me. Slapssss, punchessss, injuriessss… if you see my body, the scarsss this mann has given me are scarssss even my own parents never gave me. Yet I stayed. I stayed because I loved him and kept believing things would change once life became better for him.
I prayed for him Supported him.Stood by him.Defended him.
Today, we are preparing for a wedding that I am personally sponsoring because he still does not have much. But recently, I went to see him unannounced and met him with another woman in his house.
Instead of apologizingg, he told me to “go to helllll” and asked why I came to his house without informing him. Even my mother said I was wrong for not telling him before going there. So I apologized, not because what he did was right, but because my mother advised me to let it go.We reconciled after that.
Then one day, he came to meet me while I was making my hair because I wasn’t picking his calls. He was talking harshlyyy to me there, and the lady making my hair suddenly looked at me and said Madam, I don’t know who this man is to you, but this person does not like you.That statement was shocking
Because deep down, I knew she was seeing what I had been refusing to see for years.
Now the biggest shock of all…
I just found out he got another woman pregnant.
And yet he is begging me not to cancel the wedding. He keeps saying it was a mistake, that it will never happen again, that we should even swear oathsss together if that will make me believe him.
My traditional wedding is close.
Our white wedding is just two months away.
I am confused I will not lie I sm confused .
The truth is that even with this gragra he loves me so much. I know this because if he has money he is his normal self.
Please advise me like your younger sister
I am 36 years now .
