06/01/2025
This habit of being indoor always has to stop this year.am I the only one who would always feel reluctant to go out even when I put my mind to it?
I've always been this way even before marriage,I hardly go anywhere,I don't even have friends,I can be in the house from morning till night,no friend visits me neither do I visit anyone. my only companion are my family and my phone.i hardly attend events, since I was born I've never clubbed. I was born and brought up in lagos but I hardly know anywhere because I don't go out.infact I don't socialize.not that I don't want to do these things but I'm just so used to not doing them that my whole body and soul has adapted to it.
I had a couple of places I really swore to go last Christmas and even this new year.like to visit close relatives.but when I think of how to dress up and go out,I became more reluctant to go and I ended up staying at home as usual.
Yesterday I went out to get something and almost everyone I met on the way kept asking if I traveled, someone even said welcome o how village ? 😂.
And that was when I knew it was time for a change.i really want to come out of my shell this year, and I pray God helps me to because mine is too much.
This year,I want to go out, make friends,learn new things that can add value to my life,gain new experience thereby making me a better version of myself. so help me Lord 🙏.
