04/09/2022
I noticed that many relationship and marriage has been ruin because of those things, I want to share with you.
In marriage or relationship.
Your man must not have all the information of your past life.
Some of them, can't withstand it.
So learn to keep some certain things to your self.
There are three major things, your man must not know about you. Because it none of his business.🤐
*your Family secret.
*your Body count.
*Your financial capacity.
Body count means, the number of men, who has sexual in*******se with you. He doesn't need that information. Please don't disclose that to him. You may have done it out of ignorant or love. If you let him have that information he may use it against you. By calling you name. When you guys have an issue.
*Your family secret : please your family secret let it remain within your family. There are something you shouldn't discuss with your husband about your family. Because he can use it against you. For example your mom made, some mistake in the past that cause her pains or the mistake is still hurting her, you telling your husband or partner. Any day you want to do something that he warn you not to do. He will surely insult u by referring to your mom case. He may know little about your family but be careful of what you tell him.
*Financial capacity : Don't allow your man to Know your financial capacity. You can tell him , how much you earn in a month, your salary and all that. But he shouldn't have the idea of your capacity (I mean your savings) because some man Will relax, once they have that information. They will be like my wife can cater for the house. Some will even go the extent telling you that he has not been paid for month, just for you to start taking care of the house with your own money..
So my mom's, sister's in the house.
Be careful and vigilant.
Love you all.
Mirabella sign out✍️✍️