06/14/2026
Is style something you’re born with?
Most women believe that. And that belief is exactly what’s keeping them stuck.
It’s not an accident. The fashion system needs you to believe that style is a talent, something innate, mysterious, reserved for a certain kind of woman.
Because the moment you decide style is a talent, one of two things happens. Either you never start, because why practice something you don’t have? Or you hand it over to something that feels easier. Trends. Algorithms. Whatever everyone else is wearing this season.
Both paths lead to the same place. A full closet that doesn’t feel like you.
After 30 years as a fashion designer, I’ve watched this in women more times than I can count. Style isn’t a talent. It’s not a personality type. It’s a practice! One you can claim at any point, on your own terms, starting from exactly where you are.
You start with who you are and the energy you want to put out. The version of you that is deliberate. We are all born with a wonderful uniqueness inside. It’s just a matter of learning how to show it. 🖤