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madeingh.byaisha, Accra (2026)

16/05/2026

No matter the circumstances — whether good or bad 🌦️🙏🏾 — never forget to take God along with you. ❤️✨
A puppet has no life of its own without the puppeteer pulling the strings. 🪆🖐🏾
In the same way, without God, we are spiritually lost, emotionally drained, and directionless. 🙏🏾💭
Sometimes we get so caught up in pain 💔, success 💰, distractions 🌍, or emotions 😔 that we forget who has been carrying us all along. But the moment we reconnect with Him ✨🕊️, everything begins to make sense again.
Stay humble. Stay prayerful. Stay connected to the source. 🔌🙏🏾❤️
🙏🏾😊🙏🏾

16/05/2026

Anyone who gets upset with you for setting boundaries is usually the one benefiting from you having none. 🚫🧠💔
All I did was stop playing along 🎭 and start protecting my peace ☮️, sanity 🧘🏾‍♀️, self-respect 👑, and suddenly I became the problem. 🤷🏾‍♀️
Narcissists will do anything for a reaction 😤🎯, and the moment you stop reacting 🤐, they feel threatened. ⚠️
Your silence exposes the lies 🕳️, manipulation 🎭, false narratives 📖❌, and hidden intentions 🐍 they carefully created about you.
As long as you keep reacting 😡😭, you keep feeding the character they assigned to you. But once you stop participating 🚶🏾‍♀️, the mask begins to slip 😷⬇️ and the truth starts revealing itself 💡👀.
That’s usually the point where they will do everything in their power to discredit, isolate, or get rid of you. 🚫👥 A scorned narcissist can be one of the most dangerous people you’ll ever encounter. ⚠️🐍🔥
And forget how religious, spiritual, or innocent they may appear. 🧕😇📿
Sometimes the “holy” mask 😷 is the very thing they fear losing the most. 👀💔
Protect your peace at all costs. 🕊️🙏🏾❤️
I was labeled as the crazy 🤪 evil 😈 one for protecting my peace and sanity at all cost . 🫡🙏🏾
I won’t be where I am today if I didn’t choose peace over all.
Sometimes I wish I made this decision earlier, but God’s time has always been perfect .
😍🙏🏾

15/05/2026

Almost everyone I swore could never do that to me ended up doing it to me without hesitation, and some even treated me worse than the people I thought were my enemies. 💔🙏🏾
Life has a painful way of teaching us that betrayal rarely comes from strangers. Most times, it comes from the people we loved deeply, trusted blindly, defended publicly, and protected privately. The ones we thought would never cross certain lines became the very people who shattered every boundary without remorse.
What hurt the most was not just what they did, but the realization that the loyalty, love, forgiveness, understanding, and grace I gave so freely were not coming from a place we both shared. I was operating from sincerity while others were operating from convenience. I was fighting to preserve connections while they were comfortable destroying them.
Sometimes your enemies don’t wound you as deeply because you already expect opposition from them. But when the pain comes from people you considered family, friends, partners, or your safe place, it hits differently. It changes the way you see people, love, trust, and even yourself.
Still, one thing I have learned is this: betrayal may break your heart, but it also opens your eyes. Some people were never sent to stay forever; they were sent to reveal lessons, strengthen discernment, and teach us the difference between attachment and genuine loyalty.
Now I understand why peace became more important than proving my innocence, why silence became more powerful than arguing, and why distance became necessary for my healing. Not everyone who says “I love you” truly values you, and not everyone standing close to you is standing with you.
But despite it all, I refuse to let betrayal turn me bitter. I refuse to become the kind of person who hurt me. I will heal, grow, protect my heart wisely, and continue loving from a place of truth — just with stronger boundaries this time. 🙏🏾✨🙏🏾.

15/05/2026

Use your heart, but always take your brain along with you. 🙏🏾😊🙏🏾
The sad truth is that some people love using good-hearted people because they know loyal people naturally forgive, understand, tolerate, sacrifice, and give endless chances. 🤦🏾‍♀️
Being overly grateful once made me stupidly loyal. I would see the betrayal, notice the disrespect, recognize the manipulation, and still ignore all the red flags just because you had once been there for me at some point in my life.
I kept playing my loyal role while silently bleeding inside, convincing myself that gratitude meant tolerating bad treatment. 😭
But not anymore. Especially when we have both been there for each other. Loyalty should never become slavery, emotional imprisonment, or self-betrayal.
Never let your loyalty keep you trapped in a disloyal environment.
Real loyalty is supposed to be mutual, reciprocal, balanced, appreciated, and protected — not one-sided. If you constantly find yourself being the only one understanding, forgiving, sacrificing, checking up, supporting, protecting, or keeping the relationship alive, then your loyalty is not being valued… it is being taken advantage of. 🤷🏾‍♀️
Some people will drain your kindness while contributing nothing but stress, confusion, inconsistency, manipulation, and disrespect. Then the moment you finally choose yourself, suddenly you become “difficult,” “cold,” or “ungrateful” 😂🤦🏾‍♀️
No.
You simply woke up.
Use your heart, but never forget to take your head along with you. Love people genuinely, but do not abandon wisdom while doing so. Discernment is self-protection. 🙏🏾
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, then it becomes my own stupidity 😭
Growth is learning when to stop giving unlimited access to people who repeatedly mishandle your heart. 🙏🏾😊🙏🏾

15/05/2026

A narcissist’s biggest fear is being exposed. The moment truth enters the room, the mask starts slipping because manipulation survives best in secrecy and confusion. 🙏🏾😊🙏🏾
People like that operate like vampires 😂🤦🏾‍♀️ — they thrive in darkness, deception, intimidation, image control, and hidden behavior, but they hate the light because the light exposes who they truly are behind closed doors and not the polished facade they wear in public.
Sometimes the only way to truly free yourself from manipulation is by speaking your truth, setting boundaries, and refusing to protect the image of people who never protected your peace. Silence may protect the manipulator, but truth protects the victim. 🤷🏾‍♀️
And no, exposing toxic behavior is not hatred or revenge. Sometimes it is accountability. Sometimes it is self-defense. Sometimes it is choosing healing over fear.
I guess it’s time for people to start talking, and I’m starting with the “religious” narcissists because judgment is already beginning in the house of God. 🙏🏾
Not everyone who quotes scripture, prays loudly, preaches holiness, or appears spiritual truly carries God within them. Some people use religion as a costume to hide pride, manipulation, wickedness, gossip, control, envy, and emotional abuse. 😭🤦🏾‍♀️
Eventually, life reveals everyone. Time has a way of exposing both genuine hearts and hidden intentions.
We will know the truly righteous people among the sinners… and the sinners hiding among the “righteous.” 🙏🏾😊🙏🏾

15/05/2026

I have seen people who were once humble when they had nothing suddenly become disrespectful, egotistical, arrogant, and selfish overnight simply because they finally acquired a little of “the things of this world” 😂🤦🏾‍♀️
Money, status, fame, power, connections, luxury… all these things are temporary, yet some people allow them to completely change their character and how they treat others.
Life has a funny way of humbling people who think material things make them superior to others. Because the same things that came quickly can disappear just as quickly too. 🙏🏾
If Jesus Christ, the only begotten Son of God according to Christianity, did not take anything material with Him after death, and even Prophet Muhammad left this world without carrying worldly possessions along with him, what makes you and I think we will be allowed to take anything with us when we are mere human beings? 🤷🏾‍♀️
At the end of the day, we all came into this world empty-handed, and we shall leave the same way. The expensive cars, designer clothes, mansions, titles, followers, bank accounts, and fake superiority will all remain here.
What will truly matter is how we treated people, the hearts we touched, the pain we caused, the love we gave, our intentions, and the legacy of our character. 😊🙏🏾
Humble yourself… na yɛn nyɛ obi aa 😭🙏🏾
(None of us is greater than the other.)
We are all just puppets in the hands of the Puppeteer. 🙏🏾😊🙏🏾

15/05/2026

I will forever be grateful for the times you were there for me. I will never erase the kindness, support, love, advice, protection, or good memories we once shared. Gratitude is a trait I carry naturally, and I believe people should always appreciate those who once showed up for them. 🙏🏾😊

But the moment you intentionally come at me negatively, disrespect my peace, betray my trust, manipulate me, or repeatedly show me a side of you that disturbs my spirit, my perception of you changes forever.

Not because I hate you.
Not because I’m angry.
Not because I’m bitter or resentful.

But because once my soul no longer feels safe around you, I choose distance over dysfunction and peace over chaos. 🤍

Some people think walking away means you suddenly forgot all the good they once did for you. No. I remember it all, and I’m still grateful for it. But gratitude does not mean I must continue giving people unlimited access to me while they slowly destroy my mental and emotional peace.

Sometimes the most mature thing you can do is love people from a distance and protect your spirit at the same time.

Once respect disappears, the connection is never truly the same again. And no matter how much history we shared, I will never force myself to stay in spaces where my peace constantly has to suffer. 🙏🏾

I no longer argue, chase closure , beg to be understood, or force connections. I simply remove myself quietly.
🙏🏾🫡🙏🏾

15/05/2026

I remember people telling me to my face how “dumb” I was for investing everything I had into my children’s father. Some mocked me, some pitied me, and others acted like loving wholeheartedly was some kind of weakness 😂🤦🏾‍♀️
But all I do is ask them one simple question, and suddenly the room goes quiet…
If you are a man, wouldn’t you want to be with a generous, supportive, loyal, peaceful, and understanding woman? A woman who genuinely wants to see you win, grow, heal, and succeed?
And if you are a woman, wouldn’t you pray for your brother or son to meet a woman like that too? 😊🙏🏾
Exactly.
So why do people suddenly call a woman “dumb,” “desperate,” or “too available” simply because she loved sincerely and invested into her relationship with pure intentions? 🤷🏾‍♀️
This is how I believe love is supposed to be. When you truly love someone, you naturally pour into them emotionally, mentally, spiritually, financially, and physically when you can. Love is partnership, not silent competition or one sided .
A person who marries you only because of your money, status, beauty, influence, or convenience will eventually leave the moment a higher bidder appears or when life stops being beneficial to them. That kind of love is transactional, not genuine.
Loyalty is rare now and sadly, people often mistake rare things for weakness because they no longer understand purity. 🤦🏾‍♀️💔
We live in a generation where manipulation is called intelligence, selfishness is called self-love, and using people is normalized. Meanwhile, genuine hearts are laughed at for loving too deeply. 😭
Sometimes our karma is not what we lose… sometimes our karma is who we end up with. Because eventually, intentions reveal themselves over time. 🙏🏾
I may have loved deeply, supported genuinely, and sacrificed wholeheartedly, but I will never be ashamed of having a pure heart. At least I can sleep peacefully knowing my love was real. 😊🙏🏾

14/05/2026

Matthew 19:29And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or farms for My name’s sake, will receive many times as much, and will inherit eternal life🙏🏾

When my awakening started 🌅, I tried pulling everyone around me along with me 🤝🏾.
It took a few heartbreaks 💔, betrayal 🥀, and disappointment 😔 for me to understand what people mean when they say “salvation is individual” and most of the Bible verses started making perfect sense . 🙏🏾
I was trying to force everyone to see through the lenses 👁️ I see through, but when life 🌍, God ✨, and experience place those lenses on you, you cannot remove them and force another person to see through them too.
You cannot force people to wake up ⏰ if they are not ready 🚪. Some lessons can only be understood through personal encounters, pain, growth 🌱, and divine timing ⏳. So I kept going 🚶🏾‍♀️✨
One day, when they finally arrive at that place of understanding 💡, they will know why I had to leave certain spaces 🚶🏾‍♀️, mindsets 🧠, and even people behind in order to continue my journey 🌄.
Sometimes walking away is not hatred ❤️.
Sometimes distance is not pride 🌊.
Sometimes growth requires separation 🍃.
Not everyone assigned to your beginning 📖 is meant for your next chapter ✨, and that’s okay 🤍. Keep growing 🌱, keep healing 🕊️, keep walking with God 🙏🏾, and trust that those meant to understand eventually will.
🙏🏾🫡🙏🏾

12/05/2026

Job 12:4
I am a laughingstock to my friends; I, who called to God and he answered me, a just and blameless man, am a laughingstock.🙏🏾
Father forgive us all, for we do not know. If we truly understood the damage we cause with our words, actions, pride, jealousy, greed, and cruelty, we would have treated the kind, loving, caring, empathetic, sympathetic, compassionate, and loyal souls better than we did. Instead, many of us mocked pure hearts, took their kindness for weakness, abused their loyalty, and made their pain our source of entertainment.
Father forgive us, because we live in a world where genuine souls are often wounded the most. The people who pray for others are the same people who cry themselves to sleep. The people who carry everyone’s burdens are the same people silently drowning inside. The people who mean no harm are often the ones harmed the deepest.
Father forgive us, for we physically have eyes, yet we are spiritually blind. We judge appearances but ignore hearts. We celebrate status over character, noise over wisdom, and manipulation over honesty. We have become so distracted by ego, competition, and temporary pleasures that we fail to recognize the value of pure souls until they are exhausted, broken, distant, or gone.
Forgive us for every time we ignored someone’s silent cry for help. Forgive us for every kind person we called weak, every truthful person we called difficult, and every loyal soul we betrayed. Forgive us for choosing pride over peace, revenge over understanding, and hatred over love.
Father, heal the hearts of those who gave love and received pain in return.Remind them that their softness is not stupidity, their compassion is not weakness, and their love is not a curse.
Open our spiritual eyes so we may learn to treat people with gentleness while we still can. Teach us to value good hearts before life humbles us with regret.
May we stop entertaining ourselves with the suffering of others and start becoming the kind of humans You created us to be — loving, merciful, compassionate, forgiving, and kind. 🙏🏾

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