29/08/2021
I bet you’ve heard this one before (insert eye roll). A phrase that’s often used as an excuse or justification around sports, domestic chores and can be associated to more serious issues like being emotionless and violent. This can have really harmful implications for not only the ‘guy’ but society in general.
R**e culture and toxic masculinity are negatively linked. Women are treated as sexual conquests and far too often there is a tendency to place blame on the victim, not the perpetrator. Terms like ‘boys will be boys’ or ‘she was asking for it’ can evolve into excuses for violent behaviour or not respecting boundaries. It further reinforces the patriarchy that still exists today.
Traits of toxic masculinity include, mental and physical ‘toughness’, aggression, stoicism, homophobia, emotional insensitivity, not being a feminist ally… you get the gist.
So, let’s work on dismantling this outdated and damaging notion. We need men to be role models for the next generation.
Empower - Encourage - Enlighten ✌🏽👊🏿