04/18/2021
This week is National Infertility Awareness Week. I wasn't sure if I wanted to post about it, but I do.
I want use this space and platform to let other people to know they aren't alone. (If this is you struggling - you are not alone, even though it feels so lonely some days).
Also I want other people who have a friend or family member going through infertility to have space to educate themselves so they can be more supportive and understanding.
We are 1 in 6. 1 in 6 couples will experience infertility. We had over 2 years of actively trying and waiting for our little miracle girl to come into our lives. We were lucky that our first round of IUI (intrauterine insemination) was successful and gave us this beautiful little girl.
Now we are going into year 3 of trying for another baby. We have had 3 rounds of IUI and 1 round of just using hormone drugs and no baby yet. It is a hard thing to talk about. We are very thankful for the family we have. I know many other families are waiting for their first baby. I remember seeing people struggling with secondary infertility (already have a kid but can't get pregnant again or have reoccurring miscarriage for the second) and feeling mad at them for wanting another baby.
What I've learned is we all have hopes and dreams of what our lives will look like. When it doesn't happen we grieve those things. And it's ok. Either way. Our feelings are valid. Infertility is heavy.
The main point of this post is to say - you're not alone. And if you're the friend of someone struggling, know that education and empathy goes a long way. And personally the friends who found a way to educate themselves and hold space for me and my pain have really made a big difference in this journey for me and my husband.
Follow the hashtag and to hear more stories and find more education. Let's remind others they aren't alone, their feelings and pain are valid and there is space for it in our friendships with them. 💕
Check out my stories for more content around this throughout the week. If you're TTC, I'm sending all the baby dust and love, and a reminder that your feelings are valid. 💕💕💕