02/09/2023
Beware of fangirling
I love my teachers. I think they’re the best in the business, and I’m hooked on their every word. I think they hung the moon and stars, and I take every opportunity to soak up their wisdom.
But they are not infallible, and treating their word as gospel without critical thinking, because I’m excited about them, is dangerous.
When we get excited about a teacher, we start to love the ”brand” and community and badge over the information. It’s easy to do- we all have done or currently do it. It’s human nature. Take a brief look at the pitfalls people get into with religion and politics, and see how that can be applied anywhere in life.
The problem with fangirling is we overlook fault, and rationalize away anything potentially harmful. We rally into little camps and rush to defend the honor of a teacher before thinking how it might apply to us. We lose the ability to think for ourselves and begin following blindly, proudly displaying our merchandise and gear and forgetting the purpose of the work. Even good information blindly applied can be damaging, so don’t shut off your eyes and ears.
It doesn’t mean your teacher is not wonderful- but don’t forget to think, don’t forget your teacher is a human being, with their own problems in life and their own pitfalls. They are capable of bias; of wanting to be admired and seeking approval, they are prone to getting their feelings hurt like anyone else. They do not belong on a pedastal.
Some horsemanship teachers have higher celebrity status than others, which tends to attract more fangirling behavior and less rational thought from fans,
some are more skilled, some are more helpful than others. It’s great to get excited about someone with information that could change your life for the better. But they, and I, and any of us, are simply human beings, experimenting, making mistakes, and learning, in the public eye. We, they, and I, are not perfect, and should never be treated as such.