Two Kids

27/02/2025

Hmm not sure how comfortable or uncomfortable feelings matter here. Let’s get the bully!

23/02/2025

Holy s**t so true.😂😂🙏🏼💙

When the Truth Offends, Guilt is Speaking

There is a certain pattern that becomes obvious once you start paying attention. The people who have mistreated you, the ones who have crossed lines or betrayed your trust, are often the most offended by your words. Not because you are being cruel, not because you are attacking them, but because your truth threatens their carefully constructed narrative.

When someone has wronged you, they do not want you to speak freely. They want you to filter yourself, to tiptoe around their ego, to pretend their actions never had consequences. They do not seek resolution; they seek control. If they can silence you, they can continue living in denial. If they can make you feel guilty for expressing yourself, they can avoid facing their own.

These people will tell you that you are “too sensitive,” “too dramatic,” or “too negative” for acknowledging what happened. They will twist your words, make themselves the victim, and accuse you of attacking them—when all you have done is refuse to be silent. Pay attention to this pattern. The ones who have hurt you the most will often be the ones most eager to dictate how you process that hurt.

But the truth does not belong to them. It belongs to you. Your experiences, your feelings, and your voice are not up for negotiation. Speaking your truth does not make you unkind; it makes you free. And those who are uncomfortable with that freedom were never interested in fairness, only control.

Recognizing this is powerful. It allows you to detach from their manipulation, to see their reactions for what they are—deflections, not reflections of your worth. The more you honor your truth, the less power they have over it. And in that clarity, you reclaim what was always yours: your voice, your peace, and your right to be heard.

20/12/2024

Everyone needs love and the wounded need attention and care always.

25/11/2024

🙏🏼💙

I had my own notion of grief.
I thought it was the sad time, that followed the death of someone you love.
And you had to push through it to get to the other side.
But I’m learning, there is no other side...
There is no pushing through, but rather, there is absorption.
Adjustment.
Acceptance.
And grief is not something you complete, but rather, you endure.
Grief is not a task to finish, and move on, but an element of yourself – an alteration of your being.

A new way of seeing.

A new dimension of self.

~ 'Grief' by Gwen Flowers

~ Art 'Find Your Light' by Lucy Campbell

16/10/2024

Love💙

Be gentle with yourself 🩷

10/08/2024

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24/07/2024

How do we balance life and work if work is life?

We don't work that much... do we? 😳

This data includes both full-time and part-time workers, based on OECD figures. The OECD, is a global policy forum that promotes economic and social well-being. Hourly figures were converted to eight-hour workdays.

03/07/2024

No matter what.💙🙏🏼