05/01/2023
I used to like making New Year’s resolutions. Not anymore.
As of this year, I officially do not like making New Year resolutions.
Telling myself I need to accomplish something by a certain time is exhausting and hugely disappointing. The commitment made in a moment ends up being a lingering heavy burden and causes me waves of anxiety.
The feeling of failure that I feel if I don’t hit a goal by a given time on the calendar is horrible.
I don’t need that kind of pressure in my life.
After doing this for years, I am DONE.
Instead of setting time-bound goals, I set my sights on my desires WITHOUT a deadline.
Passing my driving test? (that’s been on my new years resolutions list for all over 20+ years)
That dream holiday?
Thriving business?
The ideal clients?
The freedom lifestyle?
Yes, yes, and yes, please. When the time is right.
Always trusting that if I could dream it, it would be mine, and I don’t need to worry about the WHEN.
Every day, I walk toward what I want.
That is not to say that I don’t do anything and just sit and wait for it miraculously to fall into my lap. On the contrary…
I learn.
I make moves.
I try new things and take risks.
I fail and trry again.
I keep going.
I am laser-focused on the desire.
But never on the WHEN.
Then, my book just happened…almost wrote itself and has gone to help so many people in a few short months.
Then, the dream mentors. They appeared in my life and have pushed and stretched me personally and business-wise in ways I never taught possible.
Then, the dream clients. All of them came “out of the blue” and more appear weekly.
…and so much more.
Every year, I get clear on my next moves. My bigger desires.
I reverse engineer who I need to be and what I have to do in order to achieve what I desire.
And all through the year, I make those moves. I stay laser focused on those desires.
We - yes you and me - WE don’t need to try to make it happen.
We just need to know that it can and it will.
And then we walk…
and we move…
and we lean out of that conform zone…
and we trust…
And we become the person…
And we do and think and move the way someone who gets what they want would..
Until the next thing you know, you’ve arrived.
Of course. 💁♀️🤌
Cheers to 2023 and all of the magic that is bound to happen for us all this year!