11/02/2016
LOVE AT VALENTINE
Is the title for Today’s Motivational Message
Written by Counselor Adofoli
As Valentine draws closer, a lot of people are looking for love, some think it’s the perfect time to find that person, whilst others believe it’s the right time to express what they feel to that special someone.
I am here to tell you, don't find love based on an occasion, it would be like spending money to print a custom made brochure for a particular event; the brochure has no use again after the event, all that is left is for history or reference. That is not how love should be.
Life is a circle of happiness, sadness, hard times and good times. You need someone to go through all. So your intention of finding love should be long termed based.
A man is looking for signs of what a future life with you would be like. A woman who is happy and honest about what she needs will be guaranteed to attract a man who will be willing to commit for a lifetime.
So never allow your happiness to depend on a relationship. It's a very special thing to find love. It's beautiful. Nothing can match it. But make sure you find other things in life that you love besides your love.
Always remember Love is not what you say. Love is what you do. Love requires ACCEPTANCE, HONESTY and COMMITMENT. Love comes when you care more about who the other person really is, rather than about who you think they should become.
It's about daring to reveal yourself honestly to the other person, and daring to be open and vulnerable over the long-term.
It's about sticking by each other's side through thick and thin, and truly being there in the flesh and spirit when you are needed most.
Real love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them, knowing their flaws and accepting who they are.
When you truly love someone you must give them what they need not what you think they need to have, you must respect them for who they are not who you think they ought to be, you must love them the way they are not the way you want them to be.
Ladies; a woman's beautiful face attracts a flirt, a woman's beautiful heart attracts a lover, a woman's beautiful character attracts a man.
Men; it takes rich pocket to impress a woman but it takes a rich heart to keep her.
"Meanwhile these three remain: faith, hope, and love; and the greatest of these is love". - 1 Corinthians 13:13 (GNT)
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