08/12/2022
From the minute your little one comes along, everyone asks "how do they sleep?" Nobody asks about YOU and YOUR sleep!
Studies have shown, the relationship between the quality of sleep and symptoms of depression and anxiety in the perinatal period, with data suggesting a link to increased symptoms of depression and anxiety.
Those very early days are plagued with phantom cries, worrying about your little ones safety and breathing.... are they still breathing! I remember researching every device, sock, mat etc to reassure me my little boy was still breathing when I put him down!
💫Here are a few tips to help YOU get some much needed sleep when your little one is. 💫
😴Create a sleep schedule for yourself.
Much like our little ones, we need to create a sleep plan for ourselves. We can get caught up trying to get on top of everything and before we know it, that long stretch your little one gets prior to 12am is used up and your no closer to sleep. A sleep schedule, simply means getting up and going to bed at the same time each day. (this can be very hard in the early days and with infants who have become early risers).
👋Hand it over
If you find yourself hyper alert and constantly waking at every sigh, noise your little one makes try swapping sides with your partner or move your little ones cot a little bit away from the bed. When they progress into their own room, leave the monitor on your partners side of the bed. You will still hear them but hopefully not every little peep.
🛀Make sleep rituals
Again like your little one, set up sleep associations to help your mind/body know its times for sleep. Have a shower, use a relaxing scent only for bed time. Reserve a book for bedtime, read two pages and put it down. Keep your lights dim to help melatonin production. All of these things can set your mind up for sleep.
🛌Sleep environment
Make sure your sleep environment is comfortable for sleep. This is one I really struggled with when my little boy came home with us. I was used to sleeping in a VERY cold room, window open in winter! Obviously this had to change and I struggled... I had to adapt and I did this by putting on lighter p'js, using a lighter tog duvet or blanket, I used a silk pillow case for temperature control and kept a little spritz bottle beside my bed if I still felt hot. Making sure your sleep space suits your needs is equally as important as babies.
👩💻Avoid stimulation
Avoid caffeine, energy drinks 4 hours prior to sleep. Avoid using screens too close to bed. The blue light omitted from screens has a direct impact on melatonin production.
💤For more tips on infant sleep check out our sleep guides on www.sleepytummyrumbles.com