20/11/2013
Baby massage:
Baby massage can help babies with sleep, wind, colic and relaxation. Massaging your baby can help you bond too: find out more in this article.
Long before babies are able to speak, or even respond to sounds and sights, they communicate with the world around them through touch. The power of touch to soothe and heal is instinctive. If a baby cries, for example, we may cuddle them or rub their back. Massaging your baby is an extension of this natural impulse.
You can start baby massage from the day she is born (if your baby was premature, wait until she reaches her due date). Infant baby massage classes are best for babies over six weeks, as younger babies may find the environment too overwhelming before then.
Benefits of massage
You may enjoy baby massaging because:
It is a great way of strengthening your bond with your baby.
It can help you become more confident with handling your baby and better at recognising her needs.
Baby massage is also a great way for partners, grandparents and siblings to bond with the newest addition to the family.
Massaging the jaw can relax a baby who has just begun to take solids.
Massaging the gums through the skin may ease the pain of teething.
A face massage can unblock a blocked nose.
Massage can alleviate the effects of postnatal depression and help a mother have a more positive interaction with their baby.
Regularly massaging your baby can help her sleep better too. This is because:
Massaging raises levels of the 'feel-good' hormone oxytoxin in both you and your baby, helping you both feel calmer and relaxed. (This can also help with breastfeeding).
Your baby's muscles relax, breathing becomes deeper and the oil nourishes your baby's skin. Skin stimulation also provides a vital trigger to the nervous system.
It can also provide relief – massaging your baby's tummy, for example, can help ease colic, constipation or trapped wind.
Although massage is beneficial to all babies, it is particularly useful for those with special needs such as Down's syndrome or cerebral palsy, providing a unique way of communicating and soothing. Because massage stimulates growth and development, it also helps premature babies thrive. Baby's first language is one of loving touch.
Creating a relaxing environment
Choose a time when your baby is content and alert, not tired or hungry.
Try sitting on the floor, bed or sofa, with your baby safely on a towel in front of you.
Find a position that’s comfortable, gives you good eye contact with no overhead lights and where your baby is warm.
It's up to you whether your baby is nappy-free, but it can help to at least loosen the nappy when massaging the tummy.
There are lots of lovely baby massage oils on the market but any plain, vegetable based oil (e.g. olive or sunflower) is perfectly adequate.
Your baby may end up ingesting some oil, so you really want to make sure it is safe (petroleum-based oils or oils containing nuts aren't recommended).
You may like to introduce a massage after bath and before bed as part of a bedtime wind-down.
Getting started
Before beginning, 'ask permission' by rubbing a little oil between your hands over your baby, and saying 'can I give you a massage?' This may sound a little crazy but your baby will become familiar with this visual cue and know that massage is about to start.
It's great to massage the whole of your baby's body using a range of techniques. To get you started, here are some strokes for the legs and feet. You can repeat each stroke a few times, always responding to what your baby seems to enjoy.
Once you have 'asked permission,' gently hold one of your baby's legs between your palms.
Then, with one hand, hold your baby's ankle securely. Mould your other hand around the top of your baby's thigh, then slide it down the leg towards the ankle. Aim for a 'milking' action – as if you were milking a cow!
Then swap hands and repeat. Always keep your baby's ankle supported and use slow, flowing strokes.
Next, cradle your baby's foot in your hands and use your thumbs to stroke over the sole of the foot from heel to toes, one thumb after another. This can also be done on the top of the foot. Gently squeeze and rub each toe between your thumb and finger.
Then, holding your baby's foot in your hands, press the pads of your thumbs all over the sole of the foot, like a cat padding a cushion.
Finish by repeating the 'milking' stroke in the opposite direction, i.e. from ankle to thigh.
If your baby doesn't seem to enjoy massage right away, don't be downhearted. It's a new experience for you both and can take a bit of getting used to. Try a few minutes the first time and build up as your baby gets more used to it.
There's no reason why you can't continue massaging your baby into later childhood. Studies show this can have a positive effect, not just on your child's physical health, but on her emotional well being and relationships with others – including you!
Baby massage - staying safe
Avoid massage if your baby is unwell, has a temperature, or has just had vaccinations.
Avoid using oils that are scented, petroleum-based or contain nuts.
When massaging your baby's arms or legs, always support the ankle or wrist with one hand.
When massaging your baby's tummy with a circular motion, go clockwise rather than anti-clockwise.
If your baby becomes upset or falls asleep, stop massaging.
