21/09/2020
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1. Take care of your health. Spend time n money on maintaining yourself. β£β£
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2. Learn to be independent. Its perfectly ok to not earn, but its important to be independent. β£β£
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3. Learn to ride that bike or drive that car. You don't always need an es**rt! β£β£
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4. Learn about investments and taxes. Its not necessary to have someone else manage your savings n earnings.β£β£
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5. Plan and save for your own gifts n desires. You don't always need a husband or your dad to buy you something you love. Gift yourself! β£β£
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6. Take equal responsibility of your parents. Its not acceptable to expect everything from your brother every time. β£β£
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7. Let the father take care of the unwell child once in a while. Your career is equally important and the father is equally responsible. β£β£
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8. Its ok if the kitchen platform is exceptionally unclean or sink is full of dirty vessels. Relax n take that break! β£β£
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9. Help the other woman, even if you dont like her. You never know what her battles are. β£β£
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10. Its ok to get on well with inlaws! Not every family needs to have a saas-bahu drama. β£β£
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11. Have some friends (men and women) beyond your husband's group, Its ok ! Spend some time away from family with your friends. β£β£
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12. Its ok to not cry. Not all women need to be sentimental all the time β£β£
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13. When things go wrong, try to be balanced and find way out of your problems. You don't need to play the victim. β£β£
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14. Find time to read and keep yourself updated.β£β£
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15. Raise independent, caring and health conscious kids. Make all family members equally accountable and responsible. β£β£
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16. Create different girlie groups. Share your problems, seek opinions but finally take your own decision and stick to it.β£
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17. Spend some time doing what you like, even if its just sitting idle. Dont feel guilty because others feel its worthless. β£β£
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18. Believe in yourself, or noone else will.β£
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19. Remember, you have a voice, use it!β£
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20. Have a dream, and donβt sacrifice it for anyone!
That is not me in the pic but her body language, her saree drape and her confidence sums up the write up.
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