13/04/2021
I get it: as human beings, we are hardwired to want to be liked by others.
However, I feel Koreans tend to put overly biased focus on what other people may think of them as opposed to focusing on what they โtrulyโ want in their lives, perhaps due to the culture deeply founded in Confucianism. Hence people are busy pretending to be something theyโre not. We conform.
Despite all these efforts, it seems weโre drawn to the authentic expression of humans. Look at this incredible woman, 70-something years old South Korean actress, Yuh-Jung Youn, who just won the Supporting Actress Award at BAFTA.
I think many of us adore her because sheโs so free and comfortable with who she is: we can all sense it and feel energized by it.
Authenticity: knowing oneโs true self and being at peace with greatness and shortcomings of self.
Huge congratsย , and thank you for being such an inspiration.
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๋ค๋ฅธ ์ฌ๋๋ค์๊ฒ ๋ฏธ์๋ฐ๊ณ ์ถ์ ๋ง์๋ณด๋จ ์ฌ๋๋ฐ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์ํ๋ ๋ง์์ ๊ฐ๋ ๊ฑด ๋น์ฐํ ๊ฒ ๊ฐ์ต๋๋ค.
ํ์ง๋ง, ์ฐ๋ฆฌ๋ ๋ง์์์์ ์ฐ๋ฌ๋์ค๋ ๋์ ๋ชฉ์๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฃ๋ ๊ฒ๋ณด๋ค ๋จ์ ๋ชฉ์๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋จผ์ ๋์น ๋ณด๊ณ ์ ๊ฒฝ ์ฐ๋ ํํ ๊ฐ ์๋ ๊ฒ ๊ฐ์์.
์๋ง๋ ์ฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ฌธํ์ ๊น์ด ์ค๋ฉฐ ๋ค์ด์๋ ์ ๊ต์ ์ฌ์ ๋๋ฌธ์ผ๊น์?
๊ทธ๋์์ธ์ง ์ฌ๋๋ค์ ์๊ธฐ ๋ณธ์ฐ์ ๊ฐ์ฑ์ ์จ๊ธฐ๊ณ ๊ด์ฐฎ์ ๊ฐ๋ฉด์ ๋ง๋ค๊ธฐ ๋ฐ์ ๊ฒ ๊ฐ์์.
ํ์ง๋ง ๋ฐ๋๋ก, ์ฐ๋ฆฌ๋ ๋ณธ์ธ์ ๋ชจ์ต์ ์ง์ ์ฑ ์๊ฒ ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ ์์งํ๊ฒ ํํํ๋ ์ฌ๋์ ๋ณด๋ฉด ๋งค๋ฃ ๋ฉ๋๋ค.
์๋ฅผ ๋ค์ด, ์ด์ BAFTA์์ ์ฌ์ฐ ์กฐ์ฐ์์ ์์ํ 70๋์ ํ๊ตญ ์ฌ๋ฐฐ์ฐ ์ค์ฌ์ ์ ๋ณผ ๋ ๊ทธ๋ฐ ๊ฐ์ ์ ๋๊ปด์.
๋ฐฐ์ฐ ์ค์ฌ์ ๋์ ์๊ธฐ ์์ ์ด ๋๊ตฌ์ธ์ง ์ ์๋ ๊ฒ ๊ฐ๊ณ (knowing oneself), ๊ทธ ์์ ์ ์จ๊น์์ด ์์ ๋กญ๊ณ ๋ ํธ์ํ๊ฒ ํํ(being oneself)ํ๊ธฐ ๋๋ฌธ์ ๋ง์ ์ฌ๋๋ค์ด ๊ทธ๋
๋ฅผ ์ข์ํ๋ค๊ณ ์๊ฐํด์.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ ์ฐ๋ฆฌ๋ ์คํฌ๋ฆฐ์์์กฐ์ฐจ ๊ทธ๋
์ ์์ ๋ก์ด ์๋ฆ๋ค์์ ๋๋ ์ ์๊ณ , ์์งํ ๋งค๋ ฅ์ ๋๋ผ๋ฉฐ ์๋ค๋ฅธ ์๋์ง๋ฅผ ์ป๊ณ ๊ณ์์ง ์๋๊ฐ์?
๋๋ฌด ์น์ํ๋ค, ๋ฐฐ์ฐ ์ค์ฌ์
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