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21/04/2025

Good evening sir, please hide my id.

There is this guy who has been asking me out since February , we started talking until he nailed it out, for over 4 months , this guy claimed he loves me, anytime he comes to my house he always wants to take advantage of me which I always decline , so because of so much pressure he wanted us to date I decide to give it a try, the guy is financially okay, he his self employed and also a student, most times he run to me for assistance which I declined in terms of financial help, fast forward to last week Sunday he invited me over to his place which I did, on getting there this guy did not even welcome me as a guest ,the next thing I should cook for him, that he his tired, and me I just closed from church , I just kept quite and obliged to it, after too much talk, this guy wants to sleep with me which I refused , when it time for me to go home, he said he has no money that he his expecting money ,that when I got home he will send it..I was just angry I can't lie,when I got home this guy could not call me or even reply me till past 8pm in the night which I called him, he said he slept off that we will talk later that's how that day passed without us even communicating,on Monday morning I messaged him and Blocked him, he called me and started shouting at me..Omo with that I just tell him get out from my phone, this kind pick offense that I insulted him, that was very disrespectful of me...abeg how I take dey disrespectful, cuz my frd that referee him to me say make I accept am back say things rough for the guy, ok if things are rough can't him express himself...cuz like this my mind nor carry the guy again.
Sorry for the long post...I need Ur advise

21/04/2025

Please keep me anonymous...Good morning ma, I know some people will say I am self!sh but everyone has an interest. I am a lady from a poor background and very determined to make it in life, so I can also help my family. My issue is that, I am a 26 year old who is married to a 70 year old man. To be frank, I married him because I love him and it was his only son who approved, of our marriage after having séx with as an agreement.

Currently my lovely husband is down with str0ke and really suffer!ng. As if this is not enough, about a month ago I also l0st his only child through a fátàl road acc!dent. As the wife, he has willed everything to me however, he is in such a serious páin and I cannot stand it anymore. Will I be a w!cked if I asked doctors to stop his medications so he can d!é peacefully to prevent further suffer!ngs? Won't people think I am just interested in his riches? Advice needed.

19/04/2025

I am a beautiful woman who is married with 2 beautiful children. I have another younger sister who is 39 years old and also married with 2 beautiful children.

My problem is that, even though I am happily married, I cannot keep my eyes off my sister's husband because there is something about him that is so powerful and attracts me. I have tried more than 5 years but I kept controlling myself until I could not anymore.

about 6 months ago I knew he was at work so I sent him a naughty picture. The young man was shy and asked if I was ok or it was a mistake but I said it wasn't.

As I speak, I have enjoyed him more than 40 times and he is extra good even though, he is shy of me.

My dilemma now is that, he told me few weeks ago that my sister read my love messages to him and that he had no choice but to confess to her.

I am so mad now because my sister's attitude has changed towards me and she has become cold. I am more scared because she has not even asked me about anything.

What do i do now to normalize our family union? How do I approach her and will she ever forgive me. My fear is that I cannot even predict her next line of action, can she tell my husband? Advice needed.

19/04/2025

I am a 35 year old divorced girl and I have one daughter. When I got divorced in 2021, I lived with a friend because my father wanted me to fix things in my marriage which I refused.
During this time I met a Mr G who lives here without his wife.
We started going out together until he accepted that I come live with him with my child as it was having challenges and my family didn't like my decision on getting a divorce.
He promised me to make me his second wife which I accepted but since 3 years + now he no longer talks about it. It's true that he takes care of me and my child and we lack nothing.
If I talk about marriage , he tells me that if I'm in a hurry I should do the marriage myself.
In this case do I have to keep waiting or what should I do?
Let me also point out that he is too scared of his wife.
Whenever we are sleeping , he gets up and calls the woman to see if she is not asleep. Often he can be "warming my beans" and still pick up calls from the woman.
What rubb!sh is that?
Please I want him to marry me fast and also give me equal attention and he does to his first wife.
I always have to wait here. It's not fair !!
He also made me take 5 years family planning saying we will have kids in marriage because he's a Christian and doesn't support ab⁰rti⁰n.
He's 33 while his first wife is 29.
Please advise me like you junior sister and do not judge me. #

19/04/2025

Sel, I am a guy who is married to a lady I love so much for 8 years now and we have 2 beautiful kids. My reward for been a responsible and loving husband, has just been discovered and I am very terrified and speechless. Surprisingly, medical checks confirmed that the 2 kids are not mine. It means that I have just been pouring water on stones for all these years.

Sel, looking at the family bond with the children, it will be difficult to be separated from them however, I feel betrayed too. As though this wasn't enough, I again read a message on her phone, asking her when she will start the family planning. Shockingly, my wife replied by saying that, she wants to give him a third child before. I now understand why she has been talking about we having a third child lately. How best can I deal with this issue ?

Disturbed husband