07/11/2025
I chose this picture for this post cause Nelo was the one behind the camera.
She took this photo of me.
She hyped me to bring out my best smile and give her different poses. This is just one of the many pictures she took of me that day.
My smile in this photo was real and this is how Nelo has always wanted me to be and will always want me to be.
HAPPY AND JOYFUL!
I have grieved and mourned, soaked my pillow with tears so many times, poured pieces of my heart on my whatsapp status, as much as words will let me.
Sometimes it still feels like she'll call me like she does when we've not spoken for a day or 2 and say her usual " Hi big sis, miss me"?
Followed by her usual chuckle.
Sometimes I'll feel she'll walk in and shout "it's a prank ooo, got yaaaaa"
But then I remember she was the one in the coffin😔 My Nelo was really the one we laid 6feet down.
I miss my girl soooooooooo much😞
I miss my best friend.
It's a rare occurrence and privilege to find the kind of friendship we shared in someone who is also your blood.
I will continue to cherish all the beautiful memories we shared trusting God to keep healing me and my family.
I resumed work this week, and it felt good.
Keeping busy at this point will help me a lot.
So please we're taking orders🙏🏼
I have fully resumed work.
My tailors have been working on some ready to wear outfits while I was mourning and away from work, so I'll keep posting them so you guys can buy please.
Many of you have been buying already from whatsapp, God bless you all for me🙏🏼
I don't know how to say thank you enough to all the amazing people in my life.
You never know the quality of people in your life until something happens to you.
God bless you guys for me.
Many of you made it a point of duty to call me everyday, to encourage me.
Many of you came to my family house to see me, hug me and cry with me.
Many of you cooked and kept bringing food for us.
Some of you kept coming with fruits and goodies for the kids.
I didn't feel alone at all.
You guys literally held me from all sides.
Only God can bless you all for me.
I sincerely deeply appreciate each and everyone of you in my life.
Please feel free to send in your outfit orders