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03/06/2020

So, a lady who has a faithful guy begin to suspect her man because her friend told her that MEN CAN'T BE FAITHFUL TO ONE WOMAN.

You can only talk about the men you know, or been told about. Even that is hearsay, and that can be aimed at miss leading you.

Second, you don’t bring the spirit of gender unionism into your relationship/marriage.

It’s not a “Men versus Women” thing. This is not a word of men fighting women or women fighting men.

Third, other men are not your concern really. Just your fiance/husband.

Marriage is very proprietary, narrow and custom.

Proprietary; It's yours only

Narrow; Only one person and that is your spouse/partner

Custom; Unique to you alone

And so what you need to concern yourself with is your partner/spouse, not other people’s husbands or wives.

They’re not your worry. If others say their husbands are crazy but you know yours is sane, you don’t import non-existent insanity into your marriage.

I understand your concern about men in general but men, in general, are not your concern. You’re not God.

You are not going to marry MEN but your own MAN.

YOU aren't going to marry LADIES but your own LADY.

03/06/2020

Marriage is individualism.

What you need to be focused on is your man/lady.

What others are doing is not your business.

You shouldn't be serving your partner/spouse paracetamol for someone else's headache.

Someone else's lady might be double dating but why punish your own lady for it?

Concentrate on your own relationship/marriage. Mind your own business.

Is your man good to you?

Is your lady loving you enough?

If he is, why judge him or her by the standards and deficiencies of others? Why band him or her with others?

If you bring that gender generalization thing into your relationship/marriage you’ll damage it.

Marriage is not us versus them (husband vs wife).

It’s us together.

Marriage is a TEAM.

IF YOU CAN'T BE A TEAM THEN YOU SHOULDN'T MARRIAGE.

Love presupposes generosity.

You can’t be measuring how much love you should scoop to your husband by looking at another woman's husband.

You can't be measuring how faithful your wife is by comparing it with another man's wife.

Those that compare themselves with another is a fool (before you tell me that that is too harsh, please check your Bible for that statement).

If you’re holding back affection from your husband/wife then you’ve stepped into unnecessary control. There’s going to be insincerity and insecurity.

The critical question then is, can love be insincere? Is insincere love not inherently contradictory? Insincerity is actually very manipulative in a relationship. But of course you don’t see it that way, which is the point I want to make to you.

03/06/2020

Insincerity blinds you to the feelings of the other party. It's a kind of love that seeks to manipulate. It’s “smartness” by other means.

What if your insincerity leads to equal and opposite reaction? You want to be insincere with your love because of what "they" told you.

Suppose he/she too begins to hold back affection from you, becomes insincere in his/her expressions?

How would you feel if every time your man calls you, you know it’s insincere?

How will you feel if every time your lady tells you that she loves you, you know it's insincere.

Manipulation is another name for controlling lie.

NO MATTER YOUR INTENTION(S) THERE IS NO ROOM FOR LIES.

And if you’re doing all this stuff then there’s a trust issue in your relationship.

YOU CAN'T BE IN A SINCERE RELATIONSHIP AND STILL THINK LYING IS A FUNDAMENTAL INGREDIENT.

I’ve found out that those who dish out this behaviour can’t take it themselves.

Those who lie don't like been lied to.

Those who cheat don't like been cheated on.

Those who oppress don't like been oppressed.

They don’t even imagine it being dished back. They can’t even imagine reciprocity. They always think they’re in the control seat, many times presumptuous. At some time the guy is going to get annoyed with all that manipulation and insincerity.

The first time you did what you did he probably thought it was an accident. The second time, he said let’s give benefit of doubt. But by the third time he’d realised you’re doing it deliberately, that it’s your modus operandi. Which is why he pulled back from you emotionally.

A lady cannot be doing all to proof her love for you and you still hold back yours for reasons you believe to be legit.

Stop draining your RELATIONSHIP emotions by using script written by fellows who don't know the value of true love.

If you are with the right person then there is no need to be pretending or manipulating each other's emotions.

All these, "I don't want her/him to know how much I love her/him" is child's play.

03/06/2020

*FINALLY TONIGHT...*

If you feel you can’t trust your partner enough to love him/her, why be in the relationship?

This relationship is a potential marriage. Which has to have truth and trust.

In marriage you’re committing your life and wellbeing into someone’s hand. Whether you like it or not, your partner will determine your emotional health and wellbeing (and to some extent your spiritual life).

Emotional wellbeing can slide to the right or left. Depression and happiness are opposite ends of the spectrum. You don’t go into marriage with a mind-set against men. You can't enjoy you marriage when your ears is fixed on what others are saying.

That marriage is already broken even before starting.

Everything the guy does you’ll judge. Everything she does you won't celebrate because of what you have been told.

If the coin were flipped, would you like someone judging all your actions because of someone else's expectation?

You can’t use your mother’s bad experience as a template for your marriage.

You can't use your aunt's bad marriage as a prophecy of yours.

You parents have made their choic, make yours. Your husband is not your father. Your wife is not your mother.

You can’t judge him or her based on the deficiencies of your father or mother. Don’t lose your marriage before it’s even started.

In the same vein don’t marry someone who’s controlling and withholding affection from you. He’ll punish you emotionally.

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03/06/2020

A tit for tat relationship is not a good relationship.

YOU CAN'T BUILD A SOLID MARRIAGE BY LAYING IT'S FOUNDATION ON DECEPTION.

It’s a vengeance RELATIONSHIP that will backfire. And it can escalate. You can’t be in a relationship and you guys are researching ways to hurt each other.

That’s not a relationship. And then all that calculation comes in – who will call or text first.

You didn't call so I won't call you...

You cheated on me so I will cheat on you...

You lied to me so I will lie to you...

You shouted at me so I will shout at you...

Etc

I’ll ask you to think twice about this withholding of affection, this scooping of emotions. You can’t deal with the reciprocity.

The outcome cannot be good. It leads to places relationships shouldn’t go. It can easily become a man’s justification for cheating on you. You see it’s a Pandora box. You can’t love without giving. And in love you give of yourself, your emotions, material, economic and spiritual substance.

IF YOU FEAR TO LOVE, THEN YOU NEED TO ASK YOURSELF IF IT'S THE RIGHT PERSON YOU WANT TO LOVE IN THE FIRST PLACE.

07/04/2019

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