08/08/2026
The fear of being seen is holding a lot of us back.
We want to show up today… and by tomorrow, we want our lives to be completely figured out. We want everything to be working before we let people see us.
Please keep reading
But that is not how growth works.
Most of us don’t want people to witness our struggling stage because it feels awkward. It feels embarrassing. It feels cringe.
But that messy stage? It is and will always be part of the process.
The biggest bat tle is not even with other people. It is with the noise in our own head.
What will people think?
I am too old for this.
They will check my page.
They will see I only have a few hundred views.
They will judge me.
Maybe they will.
But so what?
A video with 300 views can bring you paying clients. A video with thousands of views might not bring a single inquiry.
Views don’t tell the whole story.
Different content performs differently on different days and on different platforms
So… show up even when it is difficult and uncomfortable
I am not even sure if I am talking to you anymore. I think I am speaking to myself too.
Even on my YouTube channel Maebel Apparel… I have had moments where I questioned everything. I wondered if my tutorials were good enough. I had setbacks. I wanted to quit.
But I kept showing up, was it easy absolutely not..
Because sometimes, one piece of content changes everything.
Just one.
However, If you do not want to build an online business, that is okay. You can build an offline one. Or do both online and offline
Just don’t let fear decide for you.
And here’s the truth…
Most of the people you think are watching you aren’t paying nearly as much attention as you think.
Instead of focusing on them, focus on the one person who is waiting for your content.
Someone out there needs what you have to share.
I know it is not easy but please ignore the noise of what will people think
Your breakthrough might be one post away.
You never can tell 🤷🏽♀️
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