02/07/2024
I need your advice. My wife frequently goes to the gym to stay fit because I don’t really like overweight people.
Yesterday evening, she went to the gym after preparing dinner around 4 PM while I stayed home since I didn’t go to work. When she returned, I was shocked by her behavior; she rushed to the bathroom, took a shower, and then initiated s*x with an intensity that was unusual for her.
The night before, I had tried to be intimate with her, but she had given excuses about being tired due to a church program, so I let it go. However, this time she was very aggressive, even refusing to use a condom despite my concerns about her getting pregnant again so soon after our baby.
After we had s£x, she fed our baby, we ate, and she fell asleep watching TV. Later, a message came to her phone saying, "Check your WhatsApp." When I checked her WhatsApp, I found messages from her gym instructor apologizing for having s£x with her without protection and expressing how he couldn’t resist her beauty.
I was furious. I woke her up and confronted her with the evidence. Initially, she denied it, but when I showed her the screenshots of the messages, she started crying and begging for forgiveness.
I told her the marriage is over and that I will call her parents first thing in the morning. She pleaded with me not to tell her parents what happened, even if I decided to end the marriage.
What is your take on this situation?
Cc