04/11/2023
When we shame someone,we punish them by creating feeling of embrassment and humiliation.shaming can come in form of blaming (this is all your fault), Judging (you are acting like a baby right now).
It can make a child or even an adult feel bad or wrong.guilty and ashamed and less than worthy
Here are six reasons why you should never shame children.
1.May develop bully behaviour:
When shamed children may develop bully behaviour,A child mind is like a clay he imbibes what he sees
2.Lose trust:Trust is the building block of any relationship A parent -child relationship must be nurtured with care .
3.Immense embrassment: Shaming most especially in public with Spectators around might be a big embrassment.No one wants to look bad in public.
4.Effect on Emotional health:If a child makes a mistake you must let him or her know that he shouldn't repeat it again,but privately and politely in order to keep their self -esteem high.
5.Regret:When you shamed your child at the time you must have been overwhelmed by anger, you may do and say things that you may regret later.
6.creating distance from your child: when you shamed your child you are creating a distance from your child, which is not supposed to be so
You should be on the same team, for their success and failure.
I hope these convince you not to shame your children.
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