16/11/2024
NA WORK.... but pple don't know!!!!!!!
first of all,
Comparison kills. We all have our different strengths and weaknesses. Understand my strength and utilise it into productivity. Competition ain't for couples...(or comparing them with ur EX..you for dey with am).
No perfect marriage anywhere..na our level of tolerance and forgiving spirits differs..(and pride kills marriage too)....
Life is a 'trade by barter', don't be idle, sell ur ideas, and try to make money off it.
-contentment is not a crime ... Don't push for what you can't handle.
-none of us know it all,
let's try n learn from each other..
-its not a man's world, neither is it a woman's world...it's our world.
-learn to sustain ourselves by ourselves with avaliable resources, so when unforseen circumstances hits, we'll feel no pain...
Don't pay me back by my action na my weakness be dat abeg, i understand ur weakness too, but we can talk about it(communication and forgiveness na wetin we sign 4 be dat).
Money is important, join forces to make it. Let's not engage on headaches that don't pay bills.
Understand financial principles and engage them ASAP. Don't delay. Failure on this will result in prayer houses, status update and listening to online councillors. No devil is chasing anybody.
little with contentment through hard work is a goal.
Either of us can be more successful. Either way requires support cos na we make am.
Whatever happens(death/alive), don't misuse resources..stay strong for the children and vulnerable ones.
You can't save the world, but you can try..
You'll be hated 4 no reason, but dats how the world operate...ignore d negative vibes and maintain ur steez...
Friends are friends, but you are my friend.
only us can wake the monster in us, and na only us fit tame am....
No one is good or bad. Our actions determines what we have become..
Abeg marriage councillors plenty for social spaces forgetting our challenges are different.
Don't forget to enjoy the journey in marriage 👌