04/05/2024
A Great Relationship doesn’t happen by Accident.
1. Understand na ang babae ay may hormonal changes monthly at naaapektohan ang kanilang emotions nito. Di kailangang sakyan o sabayan ng tapang.
2. Understand na ang lalaki ang defense mechanism nila kapag stress ay gustong mapag isa lang muna, ang babae naman kapag stress ay kailangang may kausap. Kaya medyo nagkakaissue. Pero kung naintindihan niyo ito, you tend to respect the differences.
3. Protect your relationship at all times. Wag mong ifriend ang mg ex mo sa social media or anybody na may dating crush sa yo or crush mo dati. The easiest to fall ay yung mataas ang self confidence “I can manage, I won’t fall, I’m strong”. Better say, “tao lang, mahirap na.”
4. Always listen to the still small voice. God should be the unseen leader of the house not the unseen guest. When He speaks , “stop that fight, watch your mouth”, you better listen and obey.
5. Never compare your partner to anybody, to a friend, to a relative even to your parent.
6. Voice out. Sabihin mo ang saloobin mo. Yes you may argue but for the sake of growing and working out your relationship. Don’t be silent tapos dinidibdib mo forever. It will affect your health, even your looks.
7. Always appreciate each other. Avoid hurtful words. As much as possible nakakabigay ng ngiti at pagasa kung ano mang sinasabi niyo sa isat isa.
8. Always apply the Golden Rule. Do unto others what you want others to do unto you. If you want her to respect you, respect her first. If you want her to be sweet, be sweet first. The advise goes for both sides. It will reciprocate.
Dr. Richard and Erika Mata
