22/03/2022
DEAR JUANA:
Are you more on the "traditional" side? ๐
-Stay at home
-Naglilinis
-Nagluluto
-Nag-aalaga ng mga anak
-Gentle
-Quiet
-Submissive
-Divorce? No way!
Or are you the "contemporary" woman? ๐ช
-Palaban
-Wonโt submit to anyone
-What men can do, I can do
-I got my own money
-Ayaw mo na? Fine, break na tayo!
Maaring iba ang tingin mo sa tingin ko, at tingin ng nanay at lola mo. Anuman ang pinili mo, guaranteed may strengths at weaknesses yan. Kaya let us not lean on our own view of womanhood. ๐งHuwag extremely and foolishly โtraditionalโ sa puntong napapabayaan ang sarili, nagpapakababa ng pagkatao, hinahayaang maabuso, nagiging biktima ng violence, masyadong emotional. Huwag rin extremely and foolishly โcontemporaryโ na mahirap na tayong makausap o makasama, mapagmanipula, masyadong tigasin, bayolente, externally nice and beautiful pero sa loob, bitter at insecure. ๐ฌ
โ๐ ๐ธ๐ช๐ด๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ช๐ญ๐ฅ๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ, ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ต ๐ข ๐ง๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ช๐ด๐ฉ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ๐ด ๐ช๐ต ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด.โ ๐๐ณ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฃ๐ด 14:1
A lot can be done. You can work and do business. But remember that you also have the business to take care of your spouse, children and household. We are not inferior to our husbands. But we have distinct roles from them. You can reflect your femininity and be a strong woman without being a false copy of man. Kasi, kung parehas kayo ng asawa mo-- kung anong meron sya, meron ka. Kung sino sya, yun ka. Kung ano magagawa nya, magagawa moโibig sabihin, hindi mo na siya kailangan. Sino ang magpupuna ng pagkukulang ng isa?
What are your gifts? Passions? Talents? What personality has God uniquely given you? Are you a Wife? Mother? Employee? Business owner? To the singles, donโt go solo. You are part of the community.
Long story short, when girls and women are given opportunities when they participate the godly and wise way, it proves that we can have healthier families and communities. So go,
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Find out your role.
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Fulfill your responsibility. And most importantly,
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Find true wisdom in God.
At the end of the day, whether you are young or old, married or living alone, with a husband or children, we all desire for a peaceful life, right? Happy Women's Month to! ๐โ๐งโโ๐๐ธ๐ฆธโโ๏ธ๐ฉโ๐พ๐ฉโ๐ณ๐ฉโโ๏ธ๐ทโโ๏ธ๐ฉโ๐ฆณ
Have a Happy Tahanan ๐
Pa share and Like mga momies.. Salamat
