02/06/2022
What if you are the homeroom teacher, or the parent committee, and your class has an average, bad, poor student who is hated, ostracized by friends, is often bullied, to the point that he Want to drop out of school and change classes?
(A teacher in Hung Yen province asked me!).
Answer: The easiest way is to scold the whole class during the activity, then call the parents of both the other child and the other kids to scold the capital! Even after scolding, it must be... the end of the school year. If it goes to another class, I'm free!
The harder way is to find out the reason, then find a cure for a multi-traumatic illness, when personalities collide in a collective.
The most creative way, to understand is: All the old stuff that didn't help, for example, friendship, discipline, flattery, scare students, reward and punishment, etc. So let's find out the truth. many new things, constantly new activities to rein the students in your class! For example, you can organize a tryout for this game: fifteen minutes of emotional recapture of a lifetime!
That is, ask the ostracized child to go out, go somewhere. For the rest of the class, she gave them fifteen minutes to recall and write down on a piece of paper what was the best, most lovable, most likable, best memory, most beautiful image of her in the eyes of the students. you! Only one sentence per person, then secretly fold it up and submit it here. No need to write each child's name on paper..
Then she picked out the friendliest sentences. Example: She used to let me ride a bike together last year! She had a beautiful braid once! She once went to work with the whole class and did very well! Your friend is kind! She has a beautiful blue shirt! I will always remember when she studied hard in a group! She is most beautiful when she smiles! Her face is round and looks a lot like my grandmother's face...
Roughly so. Those words can sometimes heal the rage of the herd and are the most splendid gift for a child who is ostracized by the whole class, to heal his soul, to love himself again.
Who knows, those pieces of paper, the bullied child will bring to the next life !!1
