07/07/2021
Let’s talk about jeans!👖I don’t know a single person, femme-presenting or otherwise, who DOESN’T have a love-hate relationship with jeans. When you find the right pair, boy do they give you the confidence boost of the century. But finding the pair can be a struggle and a half. Whether you’re a 00 or a 26, jeans aren’t one-style-fits-all. Not to mention size variations across brands make it nearly impossible to flesh out a stylish, unique jean wardrobe (which is a rant for another day).
I don’t know about you, but when I was in high school I found style of jeans that I felt good in, and I stuck with it. At the risk of sounding ~cheugy~ I won’t say that dark-wash skinny jeans (think American Eagle stretch denim) aren’t still my go-to choice for denim, but honestly that’s still what I find myself buying over and over again. This choice in denim was definitely influenced by the style magazines that I consumed as a pre-teen that swore up and down that “women” (read: impressionable teenage girls) with hourglass/pear figures should wear dark, skinny-fit denim to make them appear smaller.
First of all, f**k the message that anyone should aim to be smaller/take up less space/be anything but themselves. But second of all, that message stuck with me WELL into adulthood and 10000% influenced the way I perceived myself, navigated the world around me, and my style.
It wasn’t until really the last year or so that I started experimenting with denim washes and styles — thank you quarantine for giving me the excuse to retire and replace my old jeans because I needed to size up. I started with boyfriend jeans and the roominess was actually life-changing. I tried out mom jeans with straight legs, experimented with waistlines and even washes. In February, I found a pair of super-light wash, straight-legged jeans that weren’t ultra-high waisted, hugged my curves, and made me feel amazing — which led to the realization of the reason I hadn’t tried jeans like this before (thanks, Seventeen magazine). I even ventured back into bootcut-adjacent fits — yes, I know, everything comes full-circle — which were WAY out of my comfort zone. See the above picture. I’ve really only worn these jeans out of the house a handful of times and I’ve never known to style them but I think today’s outfit was a good start.
I’m definitely going to continue experimenting with denim in the future and I can’t encourage you enough to also get out of your denim comfort zone! There are SO many funky, fun styles out there that can totally revamp your wardrobe and boost your confidence. Happy denim hunting, friends!