07/29/2021
I posted this on my lil LinkedIn profile, but after contemplation I felt it was worthy to post here too, as I don’t feel I have been vulnerable and transparent enough regarding this facet of my life.
This is a photo of me on my first day at IBM
—FIVE years ago!
Coming from a family that thought my full potential lied solely within the realm of marriage and children, from two rejections into the design program at UNT, from leaving all I had ever known to leap across the U.S. to attend SCAD, from many all-nighters and double shifts serving tables, I eventually graduated SCAD Magna Cum Laude with a BFA in Graphic Design and a solidified job offer from IBM. I am so proud that I continued to believe in myself and never gave up. There aren’t enough words to express how emotional I am as I look back on how much I have grown from that shy, but eager, early-career professional.
Thank you to all of my incredible friends, professors, leaders, and mentors that guided (and sometimes carried!) me through the highs and lows of this journey. You are so special to me. And thank you IBM for creating space and opportunity for young talent. The first 5 years of my career have been an amazing, fruitful, and fulfilling experience. I learned more than I ever could have imagined.
I’m so excited to see what the next 5 years will bring. If I can offer any piece of advice, it would be to never give up and never settle. Even if it feels like you’re so far off from what you truly want, or if it feels as if what you want is completely unattainable or abstract. There is always a way. Keep trying and believing.
Silk Diaries, and the community, empathy, and presence we created together, helped make this possible. I love you all in so many ways and through that love I have learned to accept and empower all parts of me. My deepest hope is that you can learn to love all of the parts of you too.
xoxo ky