05/26/2026
When I sent Arti Sandhu a North Star shirt I designed, I imagined it would be styled, photographed, and shared as a reflection of our shared interest in fashion as a form of storytelling. What I didn’t anticipate, but deeply value, was the conversation that followed.
The shirt features an American flag on the back, a symbol I’ve been working to reclaim through my practice. For me, the flag is not only a contested emblem, but also a site for questioning, reimagining, and resistance. Arti received the shirt, found that it fit beautifully, but ultimately felt she could not wear it. Her hesitation didn’t stem from a lack of interest, but from a complex relationship to the flag as someone who is now a citizen of the United States, but still negotiating what attachment to the American project means.
Rather than resolving that discomfort, Arti chose to sit with it and to write about it. What follows is a deeply considered reflection on fashion, symbolism, identity, and the political stakes of what we choose to wear (or not wear). I’m grateful to Arti for transforming this moment of tension into a space for dialogue.
THE SHIRT I COULDN’T WEAR / ARTI SANDHU I could not wear the shirt, but I wanted to document it while it was in my possession. What we wear and what we refuse to wear can carry ethical, political, and personal meaning. It is easy to assume that fashion influencers will wear whatever is sent to the...