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03/30/2018

The difficulties of being plus size
I will stay with the difficulties of being gay. I would say that the main difficulties of being gay come from the fact that I find it very hard to deal with people who make fun of me because of my sexuality. I can’t seem to get past this crap. I can’t stand guys laughing at me when I hold hands with another man. Those jock types that push people around without any regard for their feelings.

I tend to have an easier time dealing with being overweight, but it also bothers me to hear guys joke about my weight. I’m very confrontational about these things. I wish I cared less.

03/24/2018

We love plus size

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03/23/2018

03/23/2018

Overweight and looking for a special someone -
This is difficult for people regardless of their weight and sexual orientation, but it’s definitely harder for those of us who also dal with being overweight and gay. As a woman who has been overweight her whole life, and always knew she was le***an, I had a very hard time coming out to my family, but fortunately, they have been very understanding. I have yet to find love, but I am still looking. I believe I have a lot of love to give.

03/23/2018

Finding love if you are plus size-
I think that millions of people all over the world are constantly looking for a way to lose weight. They are so focused on this and is determined, that they forget that love is never about looks, but it seems like we begin the process of falling in love by being physically attracted to others.

It’s kind of hard to find love when you are overweight. People see a person with weight issues and they say the word “fat” in a very derogatory way. This makes most of us who suffer from weight issues feel insecure and being a le***an has always made it harder for me to accept being overweight.

03/23/2018

Weight issues and sexuality -
I remember staring at myself in the mirror when I was 17 years old and thinking that I had to accept I was gay. I also looked at the mirror and though about how bad I felt because my weight issues, I saw a fat and nerdy looking girl that was never going to be the popular in school. I felt like I was cursed with bad genes and with a very obvious attraction to my own gender. This was hard for me to accept.

Now, I have finally accepted who I am both physically and sexually. university helped quite a bit because I met many other girls like me. Still no luck with love though, just great friends.

03/23/2018

Acceptance is a hard process -
Some people say that being gay is probably the hardest thing they ever had to admit to themselves, but once they did, it was all easier for them. I never had a problem accepting my sexuality. I knew I was a gay woman from a very early age because I was always attracted to women and not men.

I think my biggest problem was in learning to deal with the way I looked. I was always the fat girl that had a lot of male friends and even stared at girls in school. For some reason, I always had a good group of male friends and one female friend that are genuine and accept me for who I am, but I want to experience love at some point.

03/23/2018

Losing weight is easy to say -
So many people look at me and they think I’m a slob who never tried to exercise and diet. This could not be further from the truth. I diet all the time and I have exercised to exhaustion. People just don’t understand that some overweight people don’t want to be this way and they try hard to lose weight. My problem is that I stay fat even when diet and if I lose a few pounds it takes me weeks of near starvation to do this.

I just wish people could understand that some have it easier than others. I have a friend who is muscular and looks good and he eats junk food all the time. It’s so unfair.