03/02/2026
It has been brought to my attention that a few people have something to say and questioning a scam. Someone please fill me in. Because I would love to wake up from this nightmare of watching my wife battling cancer. I will be completely honest and you can hate me if you like. I could care less what anyone has to say. I don’t give a flying fluker what anyone has to say or what a person think. I only care because I know Julia would and does. Jesus was betrayed so there aren’t any high hopes for the rest of us on this earth. The world is filled with people who thrive, breathe, live, sleep, on drama and BS. It’s in their DNA. So trying to reason with a FOOL is not my forte. The one thing I learned as a young man going to my grandmother church is you never argue with a fool. Pontius Pilate asked Jesus before his crucifixion was he the true king. And Jesus answered YOU SAY SO. I’m not sure sure about y’all but that response was powerful and suck with me throughout my years. Jesus pretty much didn’t confirm or deny the BS. He stood in his truth and said believe what you want to believe. If that’s what you say then that that’s what it is. So please hear me when I say my presence today with this post is not for those who brains are so small to think a women who gives the way Julia does is scamming people. When in history, have you ever seen a scammer giveaway stuff for free? That defeats the purpose! Only small minded people have even entertained this BS. My presents today is for those who truly care because many of you have reached out wearing praying and concerned about my wife. Julia has been battling cancer for awhile. Overtime it progressively got worse. When we first got the diagnosis, Julia started to fight this battle quietly still showing up daily, working and staying positive. Her health slowly over time got worse. This caused her to get behind and rely on others to help support her. One difference that my wife and I share is I am not as trusting as she is. She took everything at face value and I use to fuss with her all the time about this. You can’t trust everyone has the best intentions for you. But as she battled her fight and things went for the worse she allowed people to help her with allowed access to many things. To make this very long story short. I ended up getting word of something’s and started looking into it. I questioned the person involved and they denied everything. After they realized I was on to a few things they started moving funny. One of the things that happen that started the red flag was Zay saying she was waiting for a payment. When we reached out about what was happening this WITCH said oh I’m sorry I sent the payment to the wrong business partner. Well that sounded like something that can happen. Yall know I couldn’t even keep up with the line up and who won what without help. If it wasn’t for the Mods I would have been getting yelled at every night after the show. So I definitely didn’t question a mistake like that. Extra long story short. That situation took us into a rabbit hole and my sister and mother n law had to step in and help. Long story short my wife health got worse during this time. Julia ended up hospitalized anywhere from 15 to 20 days at a time. This is when she had to step back completely. In October, we had some hope after the surgery we thought everything was going to finally turn around, which it was for a very short time and then right before the holiday season it was confirmed that the cancer had spread and came back in another spot of the body. This was one of the risk with having the surgery. This has been hard for me as a man watching my wife fight for her life. We could see how she was trying to be strong but over time it really did some damage to her mental. I for the first time durning this whole thing seen her start to give up. This past holiday season was hard. We all know what happens when someone fighting this fight starts to give up. I’m not going to lie. Judge me if you like but my faith was never as strong as my wife faith. I grew up in Church. I know the Lord. I just had a surface level relationship with the Lord and I realize that through this journey. Before this journey, I would’ve thought my faith was strong. I know the Lord took this opportunity to test my faith. Because I have never talk to him the way that I have been speaking to him over the last year and a half. There’s so many layers to all of this. This isn’t something that just happened overnight and at this time I asked for the ones who truly care to please keep our family in your prayers. I’m asking that you’re not just say I’m keeping your family in prayer, but I’m asking you to please ask God specifically for Julia strength and for her not to give up. I know my presence in the middle of all of this would have helped, but I need for everyone to understand as a man my priority is my family and my wife. I am trying to navigate this the best way that I know how and unfortunately there was no book on how to handle such situations. The one regret that I do have is that we were not as transparent when we first found out the diagnosis. This was a battle that she wanted to fight behind the scenes. She has it since the very beginning that if she had to fight this battle, she wanted people to remember her in her happy spirits. And not as someone who had to battle this disease. For all of you entertaining the BS I’m so glad that you are perfect people and understand how this should’ve been handled. However, my wife and I are imperfect people and we have navigated this the best that we knew how. And if this somehow offense you, upsets you or cause you to feel empowered now that you are getting a little attention from BS. I will just leave you in Gods hands. For those of you that have reached out and genuinely care I think you. Believe it or not it is more of you than them. The post office has told me that I need to start coming every other day versus a couple times a week because some of you have sent cards and letters to my wife every week since her absence. And before I go, I don’t want anyone to think that they have been ignored the main TikTok page. We do not have access to. The wicked witch of the West change the passcode out of that account because once we caught wind of what was going on, she tried to hide a lot of the things that she was doing. Same goes for the email account. And if you’re wondering about the cell phone line, yeah she kept the iPhone that was attached to that line and I just have not had the time to put another phone on that line so for those of you that have called that phone or text that phone that is the reason why you haven’t received a response but no worries because I am handling everything. For those of you that truly want to hear her voice or even speak to me directly just comment below and I’ll get you my personal number. For those of you making threats I encourage you to move forward with them. Because the only thing important to me that I’m worried about is my wife and our kids. I say do what you have to do to make yourself feel better. The only thing that’s scares me is losing this battle my wife is fighting. A threat or someone stringing up BS just to get your daily fix isn’t going to move me in fear. Back to those who care. Here are a few pics of your friend. She is now able to sit up by herself. Don’t let the loss of weight fool you. She might look like skin and bones on the outside but this woman is strong and like she says daily. God gave me this battle for a reason. It will play out in according to his will. He is the author of this story. I haven’t spoke to Julia yet about what’s been brought to my attention but i did tell a few of you I would and to you 5 people I ask to give me just a couple more days because as you know she just had a blood transfusion Friday and regaining strength. I thought she was be discharged today however doc wants to keep her one more night. So once we get home and I get her situated I will discuss some of this with her and reach back out.
