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02/24/2026

This is what support looks like.

Not waiting in the hallway pacing.

Not watching from a distance.

A father inside the birth space.

Regulating with her and bonding with the baby before the body is even born.

Birth is not a spectator sport.

Itโ€™s a relational, nervous-system experience for everyone involved.

Half in the womb.
Half in the world.

And already held, loved, and protected.

This is not just a baby being born.

This is a family forming in real time.

A calm, present partner isnโ€™t just emotional support.

It:๏ฟผ
๐Ÿ’ฅ lowers maternal stress hormones
๐Ÿ’ฅ supports better oxytocin flow
๐Ÿ’ฅ smoother transition for baby
๐Ÿ’ฅ gives earlier bonding for parent and child

People ask why presence matters in birth.

This is why.

Because babies donโ€™t arrive suddenly.

They emerge.

And whoโ€™s there in those first moments matters.

-Love,
Badassmotherbirther

๐‡๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ, ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž ๐๐š๐๐š๐ฌ๐ฌ๐Œ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ฅ๐ž, ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐š๐œ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐จ๐ซ๐ž, ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž, & ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ง๐ญ!
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01/30/2026

Most people are never told whatโ€™s actually in an epidural.

Epidurals donโ€™t usually contain just a local anesthetic.

They often include an opioid, most commonly fentanyl, added to enhance pain relief and allow lower doses of anesthetic.

Fentanyl is a synthetic opioid.

Itโ€™s extremely potent.

Itโ€™s about 50 times stronger than he**in and 100 times stronger than morphine.

That doesnโ€™t automatically mean โ€œdangerousโ€ in every context, but potency matters when weโ€™re talking about pregnancy, labor, and a developing baby.

Fentanyl also crosses the placenta.

This isnโ€™t controversial or speculative.

Itโ€™s pharmacology.

Anything circulating in the mother or birthing parents bloodstream has the potential to reach the fetus, and fentanyl does.

Because of this transfer, newborns can test positive for fentanyl in their urine after birth when an epidural containing fentanyl was used.

This has caused real confusion and harm in some cases, including unnecessary CPS involvement, because families arenโ€™t told ahead of time that this can happen from standard medical care.

๐Ž๐ฉ๐ข๐จ๐ข๐๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐ž๐ฉ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐š๐ฌ๐ฌ๐จ๐œ๐ข๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ž๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐›๐š๐›๐ข๐ž๐ฌ, ๐ข๐ง๐œ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ข๐ง๐ :
๐Ÿ“ŒChanges in fetal heart rate patterns
๐Ÿ“ŒSlower or more irregular breathing immediately after birth
๐Ÿ“ŒIncreased drowsiness or difficulty staying alert
๐Ÿ“ŒReduced muscle tone in the early hours
๐Ÿ“ŒLower rates of early breastfeeding initiation and effectiveness

Again, this doesnโ€™t mean every baby will have these effects.

But risk is not the same as guarantee, and parents deserve to understand the range of possible outcomes before consenting.

One of the most overlooked impacts is on feeding and early bonding.

Opioids can make babies sleepier and less organized in their feeding cues. A baby who is drowsy, floppy, or less responsive may struggle to latch or sustain feeding, especially in those crucial first hours when breastfeeding is being established.

When that struggle happens, parents are often told they โ€œdonโ€™t have enough milkโ€ or that the baby โ€œneeds formula,โ€ without acknowledging the role medication may have played.

None of this is about shaming epidurals or telling people what they โ€œshouldโ€ choose.

Pain relief is valid.

But informed consent means more than โ€œthis will help with pain.โ€

๐ˆ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ž๐š๐ง๐ฌ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐ :
โœ… what drugs are used
โœ… how they work
โœ… what crosses the placenta
โœ… how they can affect both birthing parent and baby

You can want pain relief and want transparency.

You can choose an epidural and still deserve the full picture.

Education isnโ€™t anti-epidural.

Education is pro-autonomy.

And parents should never have to find this out after the fact.

For someone with a history of substance use, this information isnโ€™t just โ€œnice to knowโ€.

It can be critical to their sobriety, mental health, and informed consent.

Many people in recovery intentionally avoid opioids.

Not because theyโ€™re anti-medicine, but because opioid exposure can be triggering, even when itโ€™s medically administered and even when the person doesnโ€™t consciously โ€œfeelโ€ high.

Informed consent is not optional in medical spaces.

Itโ€™s necessary.

๐…๐‹๐Ž๐‘ ๐‚๐‘๐”๐™ / ๐๐€๐ƒ๐€๐’๐’๐Œ๐Ž๐“๐‡๐„๐‘๐๐ˆ๐‘๐“๐‡๐„๐‘ ยฉ

Triplet vaginal birth!!!!! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป what an incredible mom & doctor!!!
12/27/2025

Triplet vaginal birth!!!!! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป what an incredible mom & doctor!!!

Will never get over how beautiful birth is ๐Ÿฅน
12/24/2025

Will never get over how beautiful birth is ๐Ÿฅน

12/23/2025

โ€˜Tis the season for inductions! Can you guess what the LEAST popular day to give birth is?
๐ŸŽ„ You guessed it: Christmas!
๐Ÿฅ‚ Followed by New Years Day,
โญ Then Christmas Eve,
๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ Then Independence Day

๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Your doctor might not say, โ€œI donโ€™t want to get called in on Christmas Eve for a long laborโ€ฆโ€
But they may say,
โ€œYour water looks a little lowโ€ฆโ€
โ€œYou baby looks a little bigโ€
โ€œWe donโ€™t want your placenta to failโ€

โ— Inductions have risks too! You deserve to have all the information so you can make an educated decision.

๐ŸคซHereโ€™s what your doctor may not be telling you:

1๏ธโƒฃ 45% of FTMโ€™s are induced (Up from 25% 10 yrs ago. In that same time, there was no change in infant mortality rate. Dahlen, et al. 2021)
2๏ธโƒฃ Inductions increase your risk of cesarean by 30%, 50% for FTMโ€™s. (Dahlen, et al 2โ€21)
3๏ธโƒฃ Inductions are more likely to have a baby born distressed or with vacuum assistance (Dahlen 2021, et al)
4๏ธโƒฃ They can take 3+days, or not work at all!
5๏ธโƒฃ Pitocin induced contractions do not block labor pain the way oxytocin does.
6๏ธโƒฃ Pitocin increases the risk of uterine rupture, fetal distress, NICU stays, tearing, and more.
7๏ธโƒฃ Pitocin is not approved by the FDA for routine labor induction. It is used off-label.

โ€ผ๏ธWhere there is risk, there must be choice.

Your doctor is NOT giving you true informed consent IF: ๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿปโ€โš•๏ธ
๐Ÿ“ŒThey only informed you of what could happen if you DONโ€™T get induced, but not the risks of induction itself.
๐Ÿ“ŒThey pressured or coerced you into an induction.

โœ…Not all inductions are not โ€œbad.โ€ Many can be needed and life-saving.๐Ÿ™Œ Sadly, most inductions today are not medically necessary.

โ€ฆ and remember, โ€œNo, thanks!โ€ is a perfectly good, inarguable, response. ๐Ÿ‘‹

๐Ÿ‘‰Take back your power (and learn what is really an emergency!) with the NEW expanded module on โ€œAvoiding Unnecessary Inductionsโ€ inside the Pain Free Birth E-course.

๐ŸŽ„ HURRY! Sale ends soon: SAVE $50 off the best selling course and get Birth Partner Bootcamp for FREE! ๐ŸŽ„

Comment 12DAYS and Iโ€™ll send you the link.
๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰ Did your provider recommend induction?

11/27/2025
11/27/2025
Proof that Iโ€™m still here and still doula-ing LOL. This birth was absolutely incredible. The most perfect textbook natur...
11/10/2025

Proof that Iโ€™m still here and still doula-ing LOL. This birth was absolutely incredible. The most perfect textbook natural birth. Even more special that the mama is a sweet friend of mine. This was a redemptive, healing second birth at after having a traumatic first birth in the hospital. Iโ€™m so proud of her and honored to have been her doula/birth photographer ๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค

๐Ÿ“ธ by me. Shared with permission.

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