09/23/2026
As your friend, shift your WHY behind it if you want to learn to be consistent, and the learn the skill of discipline. Thatâs right my girl - discipline is learned. Consistency is learnedâŚâŚ. If you find yourself saying
âIâm just not motivatedâ
âIâm just not like herâ
âI wish I was disciplinedâ
These are skills not something some people are lucky enough to be born with.
Itâs not a discipline or consistency problemâŚ.. itâs a mindset problem.
Along with that, if you are obsessed with the result or if your only reason for doing it is to look better on the outside- Youâll eventually get so burnt out and impatient because the results arenât coming as fast as you want and if your mind is not trained properly you will give up. And youâll reach for a quick fixâŚ..
that quick fix is a personal choice, one that I donât align with, but Iâm not judging you for doing it. However, the quick fix doesnât fix the mindset problem, doesnât fix the internal self esteem problem and at the end youâre left with the outward results but none of the internal healing.
Which means. You only did half of the work.
Because in my opinion, the goal should not be to look better. The goal should be to LIVE BETTER, BECOME BETTER versions and as a result we LOOK BETTER.
And as a Mom of 3 who is 3 months postpartumâŚ.. it is NOT easy. But it is worth it. Letâs gooooo
Sending you love for whatever season you are in. â¨