07/17/2024
I like what I am seeing Vs
I see what I am looking for.
Both sentences are very similar but distinctly different from each other.
In both, there is an Object of Interest, however one is borne out of sight while the other is borne out of insight.
Follow me carefully, let me show you how it is so.
It is generally known that men are moved by what they see (women too, abi? lol) . Beauty is in the eye of the beholder , and in as much as individuals have their preferences, there are some kinds of beauty that literally every man will be smitten by.
So, if a man’s eye beholds such a “beaut” he might just fall for it. And go “I like what I’m seeing “ and then he makes certain moves and the rest will be history.
On the other hand, a more intentional man, who has taken the time to identify what he needs in his woman, will be looking out for those peculiar “things” which of course should include the outward beauty, but definitely not limited to that. He is “looking for certain virtues “ that resonate with the values he holds dear. He is looking beyond the container,and searching for the content of his interest. And when he does find her, he will say to himself “I found what I am looking for “
Do you see the difference between the two? Yes, you do.
Yet as simple and distinct as both sentences are, many people do not practically understand to apply this to their “finding” process.
Bro, when you don’t know what you are looking for, everyone will look like it!
And when you know what you’re looking for, once you find it,stick to it and give it your best shot!
He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
Remember, beauty is vain, but a woman that fears the Lord , she shall be praised. So be sure to not be myopic in your search-criteria.
My gender, come closer. This is just between us. (I am whispering to your ears 👂) please discover yourself. You are a jewel 💎, your type is rare. You have all it takes in seed-form, you just need to nurture yourself and build capacity. I call it the Making of a Wife. When you have successfully passed through this school, I tell you, you will be entire, wanting nothing! (I have a lot more for the ladies, if you want to know more, send a DM👍)
In conclusion, to both genders, I say: be beautiful inside and out, beauty is mostly hidden in the heart, it only spills out to the physical. Take note of the Content, the Container will be alright.
I am still here to serve you, because I truly care. I know what pain is like, I don’t want you to go through needless pain and heartbreak.
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✍️✍️✍️ from my heart to yours
Sarah Living real
