06/04/2026
Accommodation vs. Demanding
This is a conversation that doesnât get talked about nearly enoughâespecially in late-diagnosed autistic spaces.
Accommodations are about creating support, understanding, and accessibility so people can thrive. But accommodations arenât the same thing as expecting everyone around you to carry your responsibilities, emotional labor, or daily needs without reciprocity.
In Part 1, Addy sets the stage for this topic. Being neurodivergent doesnât mean we stop growing, learning, supporting others, or being accountable for our actions.
These conversations can be uncomfortable, but theyâre important. đ
What are your thoughts on the difference between accommodation and expectation?