07/06/2020
โTo be a good parent, you need to take care of yourself so that you can have the physical and emotional energy to take care of your family.โโ Michelle Obama
I used to have so much guilt every time I was away from Dana - whether it was work related or just for some "me" time. It was a heavy load to carry as I felt I was never going to be able to do enough as a mother, especially with being a single mother. I felt that every moment I wasn't at work, I needed to be there with her in order to be the best mother I could be.
I have now learned that in order to be the best mother for her, I need to take care of myself as well. I believe this is something great for her to see. To know she's important, and that as she continues to grow up, she know to make time for herself, in order to ultimately be able to give of herself - in relationships, at work, with her kids, etc.
If you're that parent who is struggling, know that it's ok to focus on you every now and then. It's healthy, for you and for your kids. ๐
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