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02/29/2024

Absolutely perfect 🌻💙🌊♾💛 Love you in all realities baby boy, always. All ways 🤙🏽🌴☀️🌖🎬

11/18/2023

This “place” is the state of being where you see beyond your eyes, you hear beyond your ears, you know what someone is saying without physical communication, you create with just a thought, your heart is always full, you walk as though you’re floating, everything is possible, time is limitless, you live carefree, feel eternally connected to those you love, you adventure often yet still love simplicity, you lead every moment with love. This is how my sweet boy, my big bro, and every transitioned loved one lives their new lives. It’s as if they continued on their day choosing everything they love to do without the weight or worries of the world. The only real separation from our human perspective is that of the physical senses. They are not lost or gone or missing. Simply out of sight. So talk to and about them in present tense. They’re literally right here and your soul is fully aware. Believe…you have nothing to lose and all the magic to gain. “ Live ya life and love ya life” ~ 🌻💙♾💛🌊

02/24/2023

Good morning sunshines ☀️
My friends Shannon Kohler and Luisa Yadira shared a picture yesterday paired with a quote “Three Little Birds”. It instantly made me think of Bob Marley. Derry has loved him since he was young. That particular song is always special because it’s my three little birds. My 3Ds 💙🌻, my hearts. Also, my friends who shared the picture, our 3 sons who have transitioned, Derry, Iver and Victor, are always together. All ways. They show us all the time through synchronous magical moments we share. 🌊☀️🌻💙♾💛 They are also three little birds 💯

To our physical children, family and friends, life can be challenging sometimes and it’s hard to remember at times that when there’s worry or sadness or frustration, the opposite absolutely exists also. There’s never one without the other. It’s all about what we can notice and allow when life is busy or overwhelming. We have to find ways to quiet the noise and allow the joy, and peace and comfort. I promise it’s there. Our transitioned children and loved ones have the most positive perspectives now. They are offering guidance. We just sometimes let contrasting emotions cloud the silver lining. So today, Derry wanted me to share “Three Little Birds” lyrics with you to remind you. “Life’s not that serious, Momma. Just lead with Love. That’s all there really is anyways” (my baby boy tells me this often since he transitioned) 💙💛

Hope his message puts a little sunshine in your day ☀️

“Don't worry, about a thing
'Cause every little thing, gonna be all right
Singin', don't worry, about a thing
'Cause every little thing, gonna be all right
Rise up this mornin'
Smile with the risin' sun
Three little birds
Pitched by my doorstep
Singin' sweet songs
Of melodies pure and true
Sayin', "This is my message to you, whoo-hoo"

🤙☀️🏄🏿‍♂️💙💛♾🌊🌴✌🏼🌲

02/23/2023

You gave me these words as I was laying down to sleep. Thank you baby for sharing the greater perspective and reminding me to wake up and remember I’m always the soul right by your side still experiencing my human moment.
Love you oceans and same same. 💙🌻
Huge hugs Derry and Scotty
See you in my “dreams”. Feel you when I’m “awake”

“What would our relationship be like
If I couldn’t hear or see?
Wouldn’t it be just like now
Knowing you’re right next to me?
You haven’t gone away I’m sure
There’s no need for eyes to feel.
Simply out of sight my boy
Your presence is absolutely real.
So I’ll love you beyond my senses
Just like it’s always been.
We will laugh and hug and love
Our soulship has no beginning or end.”
♾💛🌊💙🌻😘🌴🏄🏿‍♂️🤙💯

02/22/2023

Hello beautiful family

I’ve always found the night sky so full of mystery as if a language of its own. I love the knowing that as I gaze upon the incredible night sky, my sweet boy is staring at the same bright stars even if he is just out of sight. Always together. All ways 🌻♾💙💛🌊🌖✨

Poem #24 from my archives
6/18/2019

“The moon slowly rises
radiating like the warmth of the sun.
Its mystery holds steadfast over the ocean
Slivers of clouds adding contrast to bright
It shines in the darkness of night.
It's reflection in the crashing waves
Like a pathway for ships at sea
It's mesmerizing glow lends magic to the sky
Sharing above with its neighboring stars
It feels close enough to touch yet lives so far.”

02/17/2023

Good morning beautiful friends 🌻💙

This poem from my archives is about appreciating the moment you are experiencing now. Truly the only real moment anyways. Reliving an experience when all 3 of my boys were physically together having fun like maybe when we were on vacation is a real moment. As soon as I feel the feelings from a “memory”, that moments becomes a lived reality. The brain is programmed to only make sense of reality in linear sequential time and space but our soul is so much more free. Our soul is connected to everything in nature. So step outside today and have your very own reality not involving the limiting brain but the eternal inner being.

“Live ya Life and Love ya Life” ~ Derek Arnold

🌻💙♾🌊💛

Poem #23 from my archives 6/17/19

“I stare at the sky adorned with boundless clouds.
Feeling grateful for the healing sun.
These timeless moments I truly live.
Breathing in the healing warmth.
Exhaling worry. Letting go.
This peaceful energy guiding my day.
Sharing it with the world.”

02/14/2023

This picture is one my amazing husband Jim Arnold took and he attached my beautiful Grandma’s actual signature. She signed everything “Oceans of Love” which carries on in my family. She transitioned 23 years ago today on Valentine’s Day while I was pregnant with Derry. 🌻💙♾🌊💛. They never physically met but are the most loving of soul family. My Grandma was an angel on earth. Truly. Now she shares the most incredible perspective of life after life with not only my sweet boy but my compassionate big bro. this day is full of love for so many and is extra meaningful to our family. Now, my beautiful niece, Katie Sheary, is due with her first child (a precious girl) today. Endless love today ♥️

Do something extra special for yourself and others today. Derry tells me often now “Lead with Love, Momma. That’s all there really is anyways”. Thanks baby boy!

Oceans of Love everyone 😘

02/13/2023

I Love this time of the year!! Choreographing for Waccamaw Middle and High School theatre the past few years has brought me so much joy. Thank you to everyone who in past years has helped with props, costumes, donations , sponsorship and attendance to our shows. .acting.troupe Waccamaw High Acting Troupe is incredibly grateful. We are looking for sponsors for this year’s show, Peter Pan. Please reach out to me or to directors Jasmine Thomas-Stillwagon, or to our vocal director or any of the theatre students to sign up to be a sponsor. All levels of sponsorship are appreciated. Save the date to attend one of our magical shows while we fly you away to Neverland. Please share this or tag someone in it you think could help or would like to attend. Also, please feel free to use this flier to print off and help us promote this fun event. Stay tuned for behind the scenes footage as we progress in the next few weeks.

02/10/2023

Sometimes the pen writes for itself…tonight, the automatic writing insisted. 🤙

Sweet dreams my friends and know while your body rests, your soul adventures with all those you love 💛🌊

“In some ways I’ve aged 100 years
In others I’ve grown wise.
At times I’m trapped in an endless loop
Mostly I’ve learned to touch the skies.
When you were suddenly beyond my eyes
I opened my senses to new sight.
My heart would simultaneously ache
While breathing in the warmest light.
There’s me that calls the body “I”
Then I remember true.
I was me before this play called Life
And you are eternally you.
Kind friends see me and say I’m strong
It’s really love that makes sense of it all.
You and your bros are why I was born
My 3Ds always catch me when I fall.
As souls we decided I’d be your Momma
And share the most love that exists.
Our bond burns so vividly bright
Like the sun shining through the mist.
On days I’m treading the ocean blue
When you feel so far away.
I remember “I know what I know”
You’re right by my side every day.”

01/29/2023

Hello friends 🌻

Like Derry, I’m drawn to the ocean. For him, he embraces its magnificence through interaction. For me, I’m inspired by the shore experience. Both ways, we are aware of its connections to the much larger picture. Now, he encourages me through shared thoughts and a broader perspective, to know that we are the waves and we are the sand. That there is not a definitive delineation. Only perspective lead by love. I’m grateful to know we are always together. All ways. Since Scotty’s transition, the energy is more palpable than ever and translates into physicality we can’t deny. Thank you both. Love you oceans and same same 🌻♾💙💛🌊🏄🏿‍♂️☀️✌🏼🤙🙏💯

Poem #21 from my archives 6/15/2019

“Like life is the wave
that melts to the sea.
Where the current flows
no one stands alone
Breathing calm into every ride
Feeling the grandeur of the tide.
So small amidst a thousand waves
Being larger than life
with love by your side.
The sea has a rhythm
Embracing your soul.
Riding the universe.
Knowing when to let go.”

01/25/2023

Hi fam!

Bringing back an oldie but classic of my Positive Waves shirt collection. The world can feel pretty heavy lately. Find your light…steer your own ship…don’t let the world weigh you down. This particular design is inspired by my fitness family!! Y’all are strong from the inside out 💪🏽 Knockout Your Workout

The attached link should bring you to that design and you can access my collection of other Sol’s Positive Waves designs on this site as well.

Warmest hugs beautiful humans 🌻💙♾💛🌊

https://www.bonfire.com/don8217t-let-the-world-weigh-you-down160/

01/20/2023

.tripp thanks for the loan of this awesome picture. Mother Nature at her best asking for a little respect 🌻💙♾💛🌊🌴🏄🏿‍♂️🌍

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