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06/17/2026

AITA for not paying for my brother and his family's vacation?

I (28F) have an older brother Adam (30M) and my Stephanie SIL (28F). Every year my family and I take a big trip and time of year depends on everyone's schedules. This year we collectively agreed for the second week in December. Those going on the trip include my husband Justin (33M) and I, our twin 2 year olds, my parents, and my brother, SIL and their 3 year old. My mom always makes all of the travel arrangements to ensure everyone is on the same flights, kids sit with parents, hotels are the same, etc. Everyone is on their own for getting to and from the airport at home, but car my mom makes car arrangements from the destination airport to the hotel and hotel to airport when leaving. While my mom makes the arrangements, my husband and I always Zelle/Venmo my mom for our portion of flights and hotels. My brother and SIL do the same thing.

This year everyone agreed to Disney World in Orlando. My mom as usual made all the reservations and what not about 2 months ago. My husband and I paid my mom our portion about a week after the reservations were made. Last night Adam texted husband asking if we had paid my parents yet. He said we had a while back. Adam then asked Justin if we could pay his family's portion of the trip. Not sure if everyone has been to Disney but it's ridiculously expensive these days. Justin told him we couldn't swing it with our budget at the time. We both work full time and...

06/17/2026

WIBTA if I told my former MIL that me and her son broke up three months ago?

Me (f27) and my ex (m22) broke up three and half months ago, but we still hang out as friends. There's a lot of feelings in the mix but we are pretty certain (especially him) that there is no going back for us. I have tried to get back together once or twice but he's always told me no.

We were together two and a bit years, in that time I developed a relationship with his family, especially his mom. We became close, we would text each other on occasion and be very friendly with each other. Since me and him broke up she texted me a few times but never directly mentioned the breakup.

Neither have i. Recently I found out he never actually told her. Even though they live together he says he hasn't found the time to do it.

I have asked him three times to tell her, it's unfair on me and her that he doesn't. Anyways, his birthday is coming and she has texted me to invite me for the family lunch, and asking me which day would suit me better. I told him that was the last straw if he didn't tell her I would.

He promised me would. He never did. Now she's messaging me again to confirm which date works for me and asking if everything is ok because I have left her on read and I never done that before.

I told him he has until the end of the day to tell her or I would. He's threatening to not speak to me...

06/17/2026

AITA for not letting my in-laws continue to be late for everything?

Married 16 years and my in-laws have never been on time for anything. Not just a couple of minutes late, usually 20-30 mins or more and they don't ever tell us they are going to be late. On Halloween they were supposed to be here at 6:30 to go trick-or-treating, my kids are teens so they already had plans but cancelled to spend time with them instead.

At 7:15 we called and they said they were '5 mins away'. 22 minutes later, they arrived without any concerns. This inspired a new rule for me, I called it the 5 min rule.

Basically, if you tell me you're gonna be somewhere at a time and aren't, after 5 mins I will leave. If we are meeting to eat or something, and you're late, we will order and eat without you, we will leave when we finish even if they are just getting there. Tonight they had plans to take my kids out for dinner, they said they'd be here at 7.

We talked at 2p and I reminded them of the new rule. At 7:05 they weren't here and had not called or anything, so I called them. They said they were 10 mins away.

I told them to not bother with it, they tried to ask me to give them another chance since they live an hour away, and I said no way and stuck to it. I feel like they are disrespectful by doing this and that they aren't valuing my time. AITA?

06/16/2026

AITA for refusing to go to my sisters wedding unless I get a plus 1?

Alright Reddit. Need a judgement here. So my (26M) sister Jane (28F) is getting married this winter. I’ve been invited as a solo guest. No plus one. So I called my sister and asked if it was correct. Because every other person I talked to had a plus one, including other single people. And she said it was because of her friend Zoe (27F).

So backstory time I guess. Me and my sister aren’t the closest. But recently have been getting along better. About a year ago I was back home for my sisters engagement party. I noticed her friend Zoe and immediately was into her. I struck up a conversation and she seemed interested. So I asked my sister what the situation is. And she told me to stay away as I wasn’t her type. I asked what she meant and she told me to go ahead and see for myself. Ended up getting Zoe’s number and we texted for a a few weeks. Went out on two dates and that was pretty much it. She was very religious. She was a virgin and said she didn’t drink. She was kinda boring to be honest. Just wanted to just find a husband and have kids. She also wanted to be a STAM, which is something I don’t want. We just had very different lifestyles and goals. I kinda let it fizzle after the second one. The last message however I sent was stupid and I admit it. I got really drunk one night and hit her up at like 2am asking if she wanted to come...

06/16/2026

AITA for Standing Up to a Rude Delivery Driver Over a Free Pizza?

DG: hi I’m good
He then hands me the pizza and I thank him and wish him a great day and I politely close the door and head inside to give some pizza to my little brother and niece, I then hear knocking at the door.
I open it and this is how my conversation goes:

DG: Then you should tip, delivery guys love coming to your peoples houses cuz you guys tip so well!
My older brother(m17) then comes out to see what’s going on.

So I(M14) ordered a free(I fixed this, I did not realize it said few earlier)pizza I earned from dominos, I place the order and pay the $5 delivery fee with my debit card. After about 30-40 minutes the pizza arrives and I open the door.
Me: Hi how are you
DG: hi I’m good
He then hands me the pizza and I thank him and wish him a great day and I politely close the door and head inside to give some pizza to my little brother and niece, I then hear knocking at the door.
I open it and this is how my conversation goes:
DG: Where’s my tip?
Me: Oh sorry but I don’t have anymore money(completely true) I’m sorry
DG: Come on, you have to have something right?
Me: (Keeping calm) I’m sorry but again, I only had enough to pay for the delivery fee, I’m sorry but I don’t have anymore for a tip.
DG: Your Hispanic right?
Me: Yes, but why does that matte-
DG: Then you should tip, delivery guys love coming to your...

06/16/2026

AITAH for telling my Indian friend that maybe the hot white guys don’t want her?

I (20m) am Indian American and have a friend (20f) who is also Indian American. She is quite good looking, but she complains that she can’t get a “hot white guy” to date her. Her white friends are similar to her in terms of “level” of looks, but they find it easy to find these athletic white guys to date.

The thing is, that she has openly said she refuses to date Indian guys and only wants a white guy. She was complaining to me recently and honestly I’ve gotten a bit tired of it, so I just told her “maybe they don’t want you”. This caused her to get very upset and call me AH

Now I’m not one of those Indian guys who hates on Indian girls and wants her to only date Indians… but it strikes me as weird that she is just completely not willing to date any other non white ethnicity. She has no interest in East Asian, Hispanic or black guys (many of whom have shown interest in her). She just wants white.

Her friends also called me AH but honestly I’m just calling it how it is. AITAH?

Edit: in case of confusion, she outright refuses to date anyone who isn’t white. Whether they’re black, Asian, etc.

Edit2 - no I’m not jealous or lashing out at her. My gf is Indian and my ex was white…

06/16/2026

AITA for criticizing my husband for putting Tabasco sauce on my mother's beef stew?

My (31f) husband (32m) and I have been married for going on 3 years now. Things are great, and we are trying to start a family.

However, he does have on habit that I find.pretty annoying. He puts Tabasco sauce on EVERYTHING. Pretty much all savory dishes. Pizza, pasta, eggs, salads, soups, stews, chicken or beef pot pie. You name it, he puts Tabasco sauce on it. He even mixes it with other condiments. If he eats fries, he'll mix it with the ketchup that he dips them in. He insists that the "little bit of acid and heat" enhances the flavor of just about everything. The man legit goes through a 12 oz bottle of the stuff like every 10 days.

Like I said, it annoys me, but he's a good husband so I for the most part just accept this as a quirk of his that I just have to live with.

However, recently my mother came to stay with us for a few days. She lives a few states away. One night, she wanted to make dinner for us. She made us beef bouruignon as well as some salad and rolls. As the daughter of French immigrants to the US, beef bouruignon is kind of her signature dish and something she takes a lot of pride in.

When we sat down to eat, my husband remarked "This all looks and smells great." But then he proceeded to pull out his effing bottle of Tabasco sauce and sprinkle it over both the stew and the salad. I wanted to scream. Could the...

06/15/2026

AITA for yelling at my mother for telling everyone she knows I am pregnant?

Background: I have been doing IVF for 4+ years, and have had multiple miscarriages. The last time my mother told everyone that she was going to be a grandmother when I was 5 weeks along, I had no idea until I miscarried and got numerous Facebook messages from people I didn’t know about how sorry they were. Not going to lie at the time I got very angry with her and she promised she would never do that again and after some time I forgave her. Cut to now I am again pregnant in a high risk pregnancy and again asked her not to share until I was past the first trimester. We had at least 15 conversations on this specific topic. I am currently about 2.5 months along. Today I got a message again from some random person I don’t know apparently a friend of hers on Facebook about how happy they were for me.

Needless to say. I absolutely lost it with her this time.

Her excuse was well if she had of know this people would message me she wouldn’t have told them. Which of course, is absolutely not the friggin point. She says she is just excited and the fact that she waited as long as she did was really good for her. I also found out she was sharing my ultrasound pictures as well.

Now she’s mad at me for being mad at her and telling me that I shouldn’t be getting mad at her because it’s stressing her out.

Am I the a__hole here? I don’t feel like...

06/15/2026

Babysitter (late 30F) is amazing with my 22F son 9mo, but I’m starting to feel o__rwhelmed

22F single mom with a 9 month old son. I recently started working Monday-Friday full time, and I have a babysitter watching my son during work hours (8-5). She’s in her late 30s and is actually related to an old close family friend, so there was already some trust there before she started babysitting.

She’s honestly great with my son. She sends multiple updates throughout the day, pictures, videos, lets me know how he’s eating/sleeping, etc. I’ve never had concerns about his safety or care.

But lately I’ve been feeling o__rwhelmed by how much communication continues outside of work hours too. Saturday morning she texts me how her son and husband wake up asking where my son is. She replies to almost every Facebook story I post, messages me often on weekends saying she misses him, asks for updates, and even tries to FaceTime sometimes when she’s off. For example, this weekend she’s at a pool resort and still trying to FaceTime me and check in.

I feel guilty even typing this because she genuinely cares about my son, and I know many parents would love that. But after working all week, weekends are basically the only uninterrupted time I get to just enjoy being with my baby without constantly thinking about schedules, childcare, work, or someone else helping raise him during the week.

Part of me feels suffocated and like I can’t mentally “clock out” from the babysitter dynamic. I’ve started ignoring some messages because I just want private family time and space. At the same time, I don’t want to hurt her...

06/15/2026

AITA for excluding a coworker (30F) after she almost got me (30F) fired?

Btw: am being purposely vague for the sake of anonymity.

I (30F) am in a very competitive surgical residency. Around this time of the year my allergies like to mess with me and I get nose bleeds sometimes. (Nothing too serious, but usually if I blow my nose a lot there’s blood spotting). Well one of my coworkers (31M) who’s a good friend noticed this. Well about a week ago he saw me blowing my nose again and jokingly said “Are you doing c__aine or something?”. I said no and explained my allergies and we just laughed. Now whenever he’d see me blowing my nose he’d say “stop doing that coke” and I reply something like “no” or “can’t stop, won’t stop”. (TO BE CLEAR I AM NOT DOING COKE AND HE KNOWS IM NOT, ITS JUST JOKING AND WHEN OTHER PEOPLE ARENT AROUND)

Well a couple weeks ago, a fellow resident (30F) who is in our year overheard us say that when she was outside the room we were in I guess and she reported me. Then I got called in and questioned, I explained the situation & how they can literally see on my medical chart I have a history of allergies, but they still d__g tested me which of course came up negative, but I’m still gonna have to get d__g tested routinely for the next month “just to be sure”. I was told I’m not in trouble or anything and can continue work, but it doesn’t make it any less embarrassing! Well I ended up finding out who it was that reported...

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