08/25/2018
Years ago, on a search for a right-next-adventure, I happened to be in Brooklyn at the Botanical gardens, wearing my favorite necklace. It was the second thing I ever made of silver, the piece I said I couldn’t part with because it was so somehow symbolized so much good. My logo for the longest time.
Well, at the gardens, the high-vibration woman behind me in the expensive-sandwich line and I happened to have a quick conversation. I told her I was a silversmith, and she said she was an aficionado of silver. She liked my earrings and necklace. Our conversation turned into lunch, and she told me something I’ve remembered since then - she is living her third trimester of life for herself, the way she wants it, rather than how she lived the first two for other people. A few weeks later, she asked if she could buy my necklace. It felt right, so I sent it to her in California.
Jeannie and I have been friends ever since.
And last week, the day before fam and I were headed out of town, she called me, upset because her necklace had come up missing. She not only needed a copy, but she needed it by September 1, which really meant I had one day to create it. I have always opted out of making the same thing twice, and deadlines tend to send me running... but for Jeannie, I agreed, afraid I couldn’t keep my commitment but really, really wanting to.
Well, today, I was able to work through all the brain-messages that made me want to run away, and I somehow turned this piece of silver into the necklace she wanted. Somehow from memories of making this first piece in years ago while studying in Mexico, I made this new piece that looks like the original.
I’ll send it to California tomorrow. And maybe I’ll try to make a new one for myself.
I couldn’t have done it without her inspiration... so, a Thank you to Jeannie and to all those who give and inspire and believe in people and give love to each other so freely.