House of Okai

11/20/2025

Now that I’m done ugly crying, special thanks to Tailored Smoke Cigar Lounge for having me out to kick off line dancing at the Lounge. Thank yall to everyone who came out to support and dance with me; including the ones not pictured. My heart is full and joy is spilling over!

10/18/2024

10/17/2024

My best friend of 25 years and I went on our first ever best friend trip and Y’all! I had a ball! We got back earlier this week and I’ve been so busy that I haven’t shared about it. Now, anxiety tried to sneak up on me and be like “girl! It’s Thursday, don’t nobody want to hear about your trip that was almost a week ago” BUT anxiety can’t fold me so I was like girl bye 🙄! the girls wanna know! So ima tell it!

The thing is, if you allow it, society will put a lot of pressure on you. You will think you are behind. You will think your time is over, but that’s just simply not so. I wanted to go to Jamaica 10 years ago but 10 years ago, I was approaching my unhealthiest version of myself. I would not have been able to enjoy Jamaica the way I did had I gone 10 years ago. This Jamaica trip felt like a reward from God for gaining discipline as He instructed me to back in Nov 2022.

I learned so many things from my trip and I’m going to share what I learned over the next however long it takes me. I hope at least one woman and/or mom finds encouragement.

04/18/2024

Hey Girlfriend,
Welcome to House Of Okai. My name is Letrice Okai I believe that women are the heartbeat of the home and if the heart is malfunctioning, the rest of the body dies. My purpose is to create a safe space where I help you get back and stay in rhythm. I carry within me a myriad of life experiences that can encourage, motivate, inspire, calibrate and transform your life. My experiences range from becoming a single mother at 14, to being a geriatric mother at 35. I can relate to the domestic abuse survivor and the drug dealer’s girlfriend. I can relate to you about the pain of losing a lover to murder and having your self esteem die right along with them. I can relate to you about having a tense relationship with your first born that stemmed from lack of resources and knowledge as a young mother and the relearning of parenting skills now that I have another opportunity. I can relate to you about forgiveness and the lack thereof, abandonment, resentment, betrayal, rejection etc and the list goes on. I can also relate to you about navigating blended families and share lessons from that. I can share with you how God took those experiences and allowed them to grow and mature me in a way that I can inspire you to take charge of your health; to have difficult conversations, to unlearn behaviors, heal from trauma and gain a new confidence. My goal is to encourage you to become better overall; to show up confidently in every room you enter and to encourage you to place all your broken pieces on the Potter’s wheel and allow a masterpiece to be made. So consider this your formal invite to the House of Okai™️. Get comfy, you’re going to be here a while.

More to come!

P.S. Now don’t gatekeep, share this with your girls and let them know they’re invited too!