Royal Clergy

16/07/2024

Everyone enjoys being acknowledged and appreciated. Sometimes even the simplest act of gratitude can change someone's entire day. Take the time to recognize and value the people around you and appreciate those who make a difference in your lives.

15/07/2024

THE POWER OF PHYSICAL INTIMACY

1. Physical intimacy is different from s*xual intimacy. Physical intimacy is when two people who love each other show affection by their bodies being close

2. Physical intimacy is hugging, leaning on each other, cuddling, holding hands, laughing as you collide, walking together as your bodies bump on each other, sitting on his lap, rubbing the back, rubbing hands as you two talk

3. Physical intimacy makes you both feel safe, welcomed and invited

4. Physical intimacy is threatened when there is emotional or physical abuse

5. Physical intimacy doesn't necessarily have to lead to s*xual intimacy. Learn to be close with each other even when s*x is not the agenda

6. Physical intimacy is a sign of friendship in marriage

7. A lot of couples were physically intimate during dating and courtship and stop it in marriage due to familiarity and unresolved issues leading to a dry marriage

8. Sadly, married people who have affairs are physically intimate with the one they are cheating with than their spouse. This makes the affair seem exciting. No, it is because where physical intimacy is, warmth and excitement will be

9. Public display of affection is sweet, it is an expression of physical intimacy communicating you are proud of and close with the one you are with; but private display of affection in physical intimacy is sweeter

10. Children who observe their parents physically intimate feel joy, excitement and a sense of warmth at home

11. Physical intimacy can lead to great conversations

12. Couples that protected their physical intimacy enjoy it the most in old age when they are weak and retired. Something about being touched makes you feel at home

13. People who are rigid and guarded with walls around them tend to repel physical intimacy. Put down your guard, allow your spouse to love you

14. Express physical intimacy when you part ways to go to work or leave to attend to issues and when you reconnect back at home

When was the last time you hugged your Spouse

CHECK MATE

06/07/2024

9 THINGS THAT REVEAL HOW YOUR SPOUSE TRULY FEELS ABOUT YOU

1. EYE CONTACT
The eyes reveal a lot. If your partner finds you special, you will get lots of eye contact, you will be stared at because you're getting all the attention, you will feel looked at, desired, attractive, searched out, there will be this fire, this affectionate look. But if your partner has become too familiar with you, is bored with you, feels superior to you; you will get a condescending look. Just by studying the eyes, you can tell your partner is mad at you

2. THE TONE OF THE VOICE
Don't just listen when you are being told 'I love you', pay attention to the tone when those three words are spoken. How does your partner talk to you? In a harsh way? Does he/she talk with you or at you? Can you sense resentment? Or is the tone warm, peaceful, non-combative? No matter how much we try to hide, the voice reveals how we feel towards someone

3. TOUCH
When you feel strongly for someone, you will become touchy. Humans have touch sensations because it's part of how we relate. When your partner feels close to you, he/she will not keep hands off you. You will be touched on your elbow, waist, hands, fingers

4. HOW MUCH TIME THE PERSON SPENDS WITH YOU
We allocate time to what is of value to us. If your partner feels deeply about you, your partner will long to spend time with you. But if your partner is indifferent towards you, is tired of you, finds you unpleasant; your partner will avoid you or even make excuses not to be with you

5. THE CONDITION YOUR SPOUSE LEAVES YOU IN
When your partner cares for you, he/she will not part with you when you are not well. He/she will not hang up the phone call when your heart is broken, he/she will not leave the house with you feeling hurt, he/she will not leave your presence until you feel better. But a partner who doesn't care for you anymore will not care about your feelings, he/she will hang up the phone as you suffer pain, he/she will end the day abandoning you in your hurt, he/she will leave the house with your heart broken and unattended to

6. HOW MUCH VALUE YOUR SPOUSE GIVES TO YOUR OPINION
A partner who thinks highly of you will seek your thoughts on issues, he/she will not push you away or silence you

7. THE QUALITY OF THE KISS
You can't fake a kiss. You cannot be mad or thinking negatively about your partner and give your partner an amazing kiss. A kiss will tell you if things between you two have changed or everything is well

8. HOW YOU ARE TREATED AFTER S*X
The pursuit of s*xual pleasure can make your partner treat you so good even during a long period of animosity between you two. He/she will treat you special so that you fulfill those pleasures but will you get special treatment after? How someone treats you when s*x is not part of the goal or equation reveals their true feelings

9. HOW YOU ARE TREATED DURING STORMS
The words and deeds from your partner when you do wrong, when things get tough, when you ask for help, when you do something embarrassing, when the world is against you, when you hit rock bottom best demonstrates your place in your partner's heart. Fake friends abandon you when things get tough, so does a fake partner

Enough words for the wise,It maybe post like you are reading now but it meaningful............
Love you all and remain blessed
Royal Clergy

03/07/2024

𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗕𝗘𝗦𝗧 𝗠𝗔𝗥𝗥𝗜𝗔𝗚𝗘 𝗔𝗗𝗩𝗜𝗖𝗘 𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥
👩‍❤️‍👨Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.

👩‍❤️‍👨Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling and when possible, try to keep your phone off when you’re together with your spouse.

👩‍❤️‍👨Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage.

👩‍❤️‍👨Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.

👩‍❤️‍👨Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.

👩‍❤️‍👨In every argument, remember that there won’t be a “winner” and a “loser.” You are partners in everything so you’ll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.

👩‍❤️‍👨Remember that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It’s usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak. Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than s*x to build a strong marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it!

👩‍❤️‍👨Remember that marriage isn’t 50-50, divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. It’s not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they’ve got!

👩‍❤️‍👨Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

👩‍❤️‍👨Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone else’s. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!

👩‍❤️‍👨Don’t put your marriage on hold while you’re raising your kids or else you’ll end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

👩‍❤️‍👨Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

👩‍❤️‍👨Never lie to each other. Lies break trust and trust is the foundation of a strong marriage.

👩‍❤️‍👨When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and humbly seek forgiveness. You should be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

👩‍❤️‍👨When your husband/wife breaks your trust, give them your forgiveness instantly which will promote healing and create the opportunity for trust to be rebuilt. You should be quick to say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

👩‍❤️‍👨Be patient with each other. Your spouse is always more important that your schedule.

👩‍❤️‍👨Model the kind of marriage that will make your sons want to grow up to be good husbands and your daughters want to grow up to be good wives.

👩‍❤️‍👨Never talk badly about your spouse to other people or vent about them online. Protect your spouse at all times and in all places.

👩‍❤️‍👨Always wear your wedding ring. It will remind you that you’re always connected to your spouse and it will remind the rest of the world that you’re off limits!

👩‍❤️‍👨Connect into a community of faith. A good church can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

👩‍❤️‍👨Pray together. Every marriage is stronger with God in the middle of it.

👩‍❤️‍👨When you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, say nothing every time!

👩‍❤️‍👨Never consider annulment as an option. Remember that a “perfect marriage” is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
Royal Clergy Daily Highlight

02/07/2024

01/07/2024

VALIDATION IS FOR GOD

01/07/2024

MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting
5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly
10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves
15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN HOME

30/06/2024

Everyone want results but no one wants to focus one thing .Stop chasing every shining thing that you come across

30/06/2024

Exactly mid day tomorrow you will have good luck 🍀 😇🍀😇

30/06/2024

12 DECISIONS TO MAKE BEFORE YOU MARRY

There is a saying that, to be forewarned is to be forearmed. A soldier doesn't learn how to shoot a gun at the battlefront but before the battle begins.

The same with marriage. You don't prepare for marriage, you prepare for marriage. So, before you enter into marriage, here are 12 crucial decisions you need to make.

1. The Kind Of Marriage You Want
When a man wants to build a house, the first thing he does is to decide the kind of house he wants to build and then he'll go ahead to build.

Likewise, when you want to marry, decide the kind of marriage you want. Have a vision for your marriage. Don't just get married because you have or need to. What kind of marriage do you want? Do you want a peaceful, happy, satisfying, fulfilling, and successful marriage, now is the time to decide? Decide to make your marriage worth emulating.

2. To Make Your Marriage Work
Just as life is filled with challenges, that's how marriage carries its own challenges. So, you must make it work.

For many people just one challenge they encounter like this in their marriage, they're gone. That's why you see many that have been married 4 to 7 times. Decide that come what may, your marriage must work! You will not just get married but will stay happily married.

3. To Be A Faithful Partner
After marriage, you'll see women who are more beautiful, talented, connected, and endowed than your wife, you'll see men more caring, romantic, handsome, rich, and fun to be with than your husband. It's very tempting. You may begin to think that you made a mistake.

Therefore, decide beforehand that you're going to be a faithful partner no matter what. No matter what your husband or wife does, you will never cheat. No emotional or s*xual affairs. Decide now to be faithful, committed, loyal, and honest.

4. To Forgive Your Partner
Let me remind you that you're getting married to an imperfect person full of weaknesses and shortcomings. You'll be offended, annoyed, and hurt.

So, start practicing how to forgive now because I'm 100% certain that your partner will offend you and if you can't forgive, there will be a crack on the wall of your marriage. Marriage is for forgivers.

5. To Honor And Respect Your Partner
Make up your mind that irrespective of the status, caliber, and position of the person marry, whether rich or poor, you will honor and respect him or her.

When you marry someone you're far better or richer than, honoring or respecting may be hard but decide now that whether or not you marry a village girl or an illiterate man, you will honor and respect your partner.

6. To Raise Godly Children
One of the principal purposes of marriage is to raise godly children. That's why the Scripture commanded the parents to raise their children in the way of the Lord(Prov. 22:6).

Therefore, make a decision now that you are going to raise godly children, not marlians, obedient and respectful kids. Now is the time to decide.

7. To Enjoy Your Marriage
You see, in this life how you make your bed that's how you are going to lie on it. The same with your marriage.

Your marriage is what you make of it. The onus is upon you to make it either a living hell or heaven on earth. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured. So, make up your mind that you will do everything possible to enjoy your marriage.

8. To Love Your Partner
A lady will be on her own and then a guy will come and marry her off and then start maltreating her. I'm not just talking to guys only.

It is wickedness to marry someone you don't love for whatever reason. Marry someone you love and love someone you marry. All things being equal, decide to marry who you love and love who you marry. Make a commitment to love.

9. To Fulfill Destiny
To make the fulfillment of destiny easier is among the reasons marriage exists. So, don't just marry for fun, marry also to fulfill destiny.

Decide that your getting married will not just be to be having fun, s*x, kids, etc., but also to fulfill destiny. Marriage makes destiny fulfillment easier.

10. To Honor God
God is the one who created marriage. So, marriage has its spiritual dimension, and honoring God is part of that spiritual dimension.

Someone said that marriage is God's gift to us but what we make of our marriages is our gift back to God. In light of that, decide that your marriage will honor God. When you are fighting and quarreling, cheating, or beating your partner, your marriage isn't honoring God.

11. To Be A Blessing To Your Partner
Many have given up on people because of disappointments here and there, heartbreaks, and all that. They find it hard to love and trust again because of that.

Decide your own case will be different. Make it your decision to be a blessing to your partner in every area of life spiritually, physically, emotionally, financially, domestically, intellectually, etc. Let your partner thank God every day because of you. Be a blessing!

12. To Celebrate Your Partner
The Bible said, rejoice in the wife of your youth. In other words, celebrate your partner. Decide to rejoice and celebrate your partner. Celebrate your partner both in secret and in public.

When you celebrate your wife, the floodgates of heaven will be open and dews from heaven will drown you. When you celebrate your husband, he will do more!

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus's name

29/06/2024

HOW TO KNOW IF THE LOVE IS REAL❤️🥰🧡😍

When someone loves you, you know and you will feel it. There will be evidences to attest to it.

Below are some of the evidences...

✅ ATTENTION

When someone loves you, he or she will give you attention. We give attention to the things that we love.

✅ CARE

When someone loves you, they will care about your well-being. Anyone that doesn't care about your welfare does not love you.

✅ COMMUNICATION

When someone loves you, they will communicate often with you as much as possible. Hearing the voice of whom you love is a delight.

✅ GIVING

The natural outflow of love is giving. When someone loves you, they will give. It doesn't necessarily has to be money but there will be giving.

✅ SPENDING TIME TOGETHER

When someone loves you, they will desire and long to spend time with you. When you love someone, you will desire the presence of the person. Anyone that doesn't like spending time with you, may not love you.

✅ SACRIFICE

The ultimate prove of love is sacrifice. Love is not self-seeking. Love always spends itself at the expense of the beloved. Someone that is not going out of his way once in a while to make you feel good, may not love you. Love is sacrificial.

✅ PATIENCE

When someone loves you, they will patient with you. They will be patient with in your weaknesses, down time, etc.

✅ PROTECTION

When someone loves you, they will try to protect you from harm, they will ensure that you are safe.

✅ KINDNESS

When someone loves you, they will be kind to you. Love is kind. Harshness is a sign of hatred, resentment or anger not a sign of love.

✅ VULNERABILITY

When someone loves you, they will vulnerable to you. They will loose their guard, put down their defence, they will dismantle the barricade and they will show you the weak side of them hoping you don't hurt them.

✅ SUPPORT

When someone loves you, they will support you in whatever capacity they can. They will support your dreams and aspirations, they will support you financially, spiritually, emotionally and otherwise.

✅ INVESTMENT

When someone loves you, they will invest in you to make you better than they met you mentally, emotionally, economically etc. Love builds up.

So these are some of the signs that shows someone loves you.

How Do You Know That The Love Is Real?

✅ Give It Time

I read something from Reno Omokri recently that made a lot of sense to me. In fact, it put what I want to say in perfect perspective for me.

He says, "No mask can be worn forever. Give people time. Their mask will fall. Until then, don't marry or do business with them. Stay loving, but be alert."

You cannot cover pregnancy forever, with time it will be revealed for all to see.

So, give the person time. He says he loves you with all his heart, you are his morning star, sunshine, sugar in the tea, butter in the bread and his one and only woman, there's no problem. Give it time.

When you find yourself in a very difficult situation, maybe you are critically ill, will he still continue to love you?

She says she loves you, you are her world and you mean everything to her. Without you she cannot live nor survive. You are her oxygen and life-force. There is no problem. Give it time.

When you loose your job or suffer a major blow in your business, will she still love?

When you are broke and unable to provide for her financial needs, will she still love or disappear with another guy?

Don't rush things. Give it time. Time is a revealer. Time will reveal if the love is real or not, with time you will come to know if the person is saying the truth or lying. Love perseveres and love is long-suffering. Stay loving, but be alert.