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Forget anti-ageing creams. The secret to staying young is being a parent. This is according to research from Rutgers Hea...
19/01/2026

Forget anti-ageing creams. The secret to staying young is being a parent.

This is according to research from Rutgers Health and Yale University titled "Protective role of parenthood on age-related brain function in mid- to late-life."

The research, which was published in 2025, says parents show patterns of brain connectivity that oppose typical age-related changes. It says the more children you have, the more this effect is strengthened.

Perhaps those who do “gore mwana, gore mwana” are on to something.

Many countries are banning children from Facebook and other social media platforms. Australia has done it, Denmark is in...
01/01/2026

Many countries are banning children from Facebook and other social media platforms. Australia has done it, Denmark is in the process, and France intends to do the same.

One major reason given for the ban is the need to reduce children's exposure to harmful and inappropriate content.

As it stands, what we see on social media, our children can also see. Think of all the inappropriate things you have come across. Our children are not protected from them. As a matter of fact, if they happen to make a mistake of viewing such things, social media algorithms will keep feeding them the same stuff. That's how social media works!

Do you think our legislators should discuss a bill to ban our children from social media?

As parents, it’s easy to look the other way sometimes. You’re tired. You don’t want drama. You tell yourself, “They’re s...
31/12/2025

As parents, it’s easy to look the other way sometimes. You’re tired. You don’t want drama. You tell yourself, “They’re still young, they’ll grow out of it.”

But small habits ignored today can become big problems tomorrow. Here’s why allowing constant misbehavior can hurt a child in the long run.

When a child is never corrected, they learn that rules don’t matter. At home, this could result in refusing to do chores, talking back, or ignoring instructions.

Later in life, that same attitude shows up at school, at work, and in relationships. Children who always “get away with it” struggle with authority. A child who never learned limits at home often clashes with authority outside, and the consequences there are much harsher.

Lack of discipline also affects character. A child who is not taught patience, respect, and self-control may grow into an adult who gives up easily, reacts with anger, or blames others for their mistakes.

Life doesn’t make allowances the way parents do. Discipline is a form of love; it prepares children for the real world. How do you balance love and discipline in your home?

Every parent wants their child to have good friends, but sometimes kids pick up habits that can be harmful. Spotting a b...
30/12/2025

Every parent wants their child to have good friends, but sometimes kids pick up habits that can be harmful.

Spotting a bad influence early can save a lot of trouble. Here are five signs to watch out for:

1.Disrespectful behaviour

If your child starts copying rude or disrespectful ways like talking back to elders, ignoring rules, or being mean to others, it could be from a peer.

2. Encouraging bad habits

Whether it’s skipping school, lying, or being careless with chores, some friends push your child toward things you don’t approve of.

3. Excessive peer pressure

A friend who constantly pressures your child to do things they’re uncomfortable with is a red flag.

4. Negative attitude

Children absorb moods. If your child starts complaining a lot, being negative, or losing interest in school or hobbies, take note.

5. Secrecy or hiding things

If your child suddenly starts lying or hiding their actions, it might be to follow a friend’s lead.

Parents, have you noticed a friend having a bad influence on your child? How did you handle it? Share your experiences in the comments below!

Many of us grew up being beaten. Our mothers could turn anything into a weapon… cooking stick, broom, and the most dange...
29/12/2025

Many of us grew up being beaten. Our mothers could turn anything into a weapon… cooking stick, broom, and the most dangerous weapon of them all – pata-pata. One second it's on her feet, the next, it's on your backside.

Then of course, there was daddy’s belt, or the request for you to go and “temha” your own “shamhu.” This was all quite “normal.”

But many of us are now asking: Is there another way to instill discipline? There is. SANCTIONS.

Normally, this is when a country places restrictions on another country. But you too can make use of sanctions in your home.

If a child refuses to do chores, they lose playtime. If they misuse a phone, it’s taken away for a day or two. The lesson should match the mistake.

This will show children that bad actions result in CONSEQUENCES.

80% of Zimbabweans say drug abuse is widespread in their communities. This is according to a 2024 Afrobarometer study. Y...
21/10/2025

80% of Zimbabweans say drug abuse is widespread in their communities. This is according to a 2024 Afrobarometer study. You can detect drug abuse in your own home by watching out for these 7 signs.

1. Sudden Change in Behaviour

If your child suddenly becomes withdrawn, secretive, moody, or starts isolating themselves from family and old friends, it could be a red flag. They may lose interest in hobbies, sports, or church activities they once enjoyed. While mood swings can be part of adolescence, drastic or unexplained changes could be a sign of drug abuse.

2. Drop in School Performance

Drug use often leads to declining grades and absenteeism. Teachers may complain that your child is no longer paying attention, sleeping in class, or missing school entirely. You might also notice disciplinary problems such as fighting or disrespect.

3. Unusual Sleep Patterns

Children abusing drugs may stay awake all night and sleep during the day, or appear unusually tired. Stimulants like mutoriro cause sleeplessness, while depressants like alcohol or codeine-based cough syrup can make them excessively drowsy.

4. Neglect of Personal Hygiene

Drugs can cause young people to lose interest in grooming and cleanliness. You might notice that your child no longer cares about bathing, brushing teeth, or wearing clean clothes. They may also have bloodshot eyes or develop sores and unexplained injuries.

5. Strange Smells or Physical Evidence

Be alert to unusual smells on your child’s clothes or breath — like ma*****na smoke or chemicals. You might also find suspicious items such as small plastic sachets, straws, empty cough syrup bottles, or broken pens (often used for inhaling).

6. Money and Valuables Going Missing

If you frequently lose money, groceries, or household items that can be sold, this might be a sign your child is trying to fund a drug habit. Some may even borrow from friends or relatives and lie about why they need the money.

7. Change in Friends or Hangout Places

Peer pressure plays a major role in drug use. If your child suddenly changes friends, refuses to introduce them to you, or spends more time in areas known for drug activity, take note. They might also become defensive when you ask simple questions about their whereabouts.

What You Can Do

Stay calm, observant, and supportive. Avoid shouting or punishment — this may push them further away. Talk openly about your concerns, involve a counsellor, and seek help from organisations or clinics that deal with youth substance abuse.

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